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Give me their addresses

On which end? Thanks for the suggestions! I had planned on checking out Cafe du Monde. I love sweets and coffee.

Definitely doing that. I meant more along the lines of things I can do after I get drunk and want to wander around.

Anyone have recommendations for fun stuff to do in New Orleans?

Rain

Thanks Katt. I heard your name get dropped on last week’s episode of as seen on. I got tickled about it. I know that this is a different situation, and I need the help of judges and police. I still feel weird about it though, like I should have been able to handle it on my own, but I just can’t.

Different guy.

Thank you. I definitely plan on following up and making sure this reaches its end.

Ex boyfriend that I dated for 7 years and broke up with in October.

It went by fast enough. I just panic having to be around so many authority figures. I have to be in a courtroom with the guy who I got the TPO against, and that’s pretty nerve-wracking. Thanks for the reassurance!

I had asked y’all about it before, but I didn’t go through with it cause I hoped the harassment would stop. It didn’t. Now I have a temporary protective order, and I go to court later this month to get it extended. Shit sucks, and I’m super overwhelmed by all of it. Being in a courthouse makes me more nervous than I can explain, and I really don’t want to get anyone in trouble. I have the whole “fuck a narc” mindset, and I’m trying to convince myself that this is different and that I’m not a snitch. Still, I feel an immense sense of guilt about everything, and I don’t have the time to process any of it because I’m in the middle of my senior semester, struggling to get my thesis done and maintain the appearance of a functioning human. Sorry for the blog post. I don’t have many people to talk to, and I wanted to bitch a little.

Disney’s A Wrinkle in Time. I’m way more excited about it than I should be.

I have interacted with one of those hotlines before, and it was helpful-ish. I was dealing with something that I didn’t want to burden the people in my life with. I’m sure if I had reached out to people irl, they would have listened and would have been understanding and helpful, but I didn’t want people to think that I was struggling or going crazy or whatever someone might think about a suicidal person. Idk. I used a texting hotline, and the person I spoke with provided me with useful resources. I think that giving out a hotline can be impersonal and show a lack of care, but it can also be a viable option for someone who A) wants to just talk through some shit with a stranger who can’t pass judgment and B) needs to be directed to the proper help. Of course, I didn’t commit suicide, and I never tried. I just found myself in a position where I thought about it more often than not, which was scary, so I sought help. Every situation is different, and depression impacts people in varying ways. Though these hotlines may not directly help you, they can lead you in the right direction.

Tell him my dog and I said hi.

Nah, it’s not really shitty, but it sends me into a new crisis with every episode. I guess that’s a separate struggle though.

Black Mirror

I hate that shit. If the room temperature isn’t comparable to a meat locker, I’m out. I got raging mad when I was staying at my boyfriend’s apartment the other night. His roommates keep it really warm, and I couldn’t sleep cause HOT.

I live in North GA. It isn’t that cool, but it is admittedly beautiful. I have a lot of state pride, but Atlanta and the coast are really the only places worth a shit.

Sea bears

I have an irrational fear of driving as well. I don’t have any advice for you, but solidarity is nice?

But he doesn’t think it’s good enough and plans on getting another one that is more conventional. I really like it though, so I guess I just got a pre-engagement ring?

Where can I find it? That would be perfect.

I’m eating pickled quail eggs

Indeed. I imagine it wouldn’t be good to incorporate into her diet frequently, but a special birthday treat is fine. It has pumpkin, peanut butter, and applesauce in the cake, and the frosting is Greek yogurt and peanut butter.