I've never had it that bad. I rear ended somebody a few years ago and I had really bad anxiety about driving and it was really bad about driving in the rain or on wet roads. I still had to get places though so I would just drive like 5 miles under the speed limit and be super careful. I still clutch the steering wheel waay to tight though. When I'm driving on road trips I have to pry my fingers off the steering wheel and stretch them.