I doubt it's possible to run from what you're encountering, as you'll probably run into the same or worse anywhere you go. If you truly think going elsewhere is what is best for you, take political leanings into consideration (along with weather, etc.). Alaska was suggested, but is also a Red state. Madison, WI is supposed to be an easy-going college town (I've got left-leaning cousins that live outside the city proper).
You might look through local newspapers online for the places you consider, just to see what is going down currently. I'm pretty sure no particular place is going to be idyllic.