I got into trouble once for taking initiative one day after school and mowing the lawn. My dad came home when I was a little more than halfway done and flipped out cause I should have asked.
and this other time…
the rule was “no one is allowed inside the house when my parents aren’t home, no exceptions”. I came home from school one day and my brothers friend was in the house so I flipped out. Saying he can’t be in the house, we'll get into trouble, get him the fuck out, blah blah. Well my brother had gotten an ok from my dad but instead of telling me, he just called him and told him I was losing my shit about it. And so my dad came home, walked into the house, found me in the dining room doing homework. And without a word hit me so hard I flew out of the damn chair.