I honestly haven't been to one that was for either side of my family in years....My mom always just latches on to her brother's wife's family reunions and I don't exactly care for them...I don't dislike them...Just don't care.
My sister used to fly me out to Cali for the Famrees on my dad's side, but since all the older members are dead, none of the kids give enough of a shit to get together anymore.
The kid's mom's family still has them and I have to go because of the kids, but I don't have to participate or do too much schmoozing other than with the few people I fucks with.