Well, you got a few things going for you. One, you're usually a pleasure to interact with. Two, you're cute. Ok, two things, you have two things going for you.
He was into quite a bit. It was always fun watching him walk up to people he knew who were tied up and bent over and paddling their ass or flogging them.
Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now.