Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 and she thinks it's a good idea that we don't talk anymore. I'm sad. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_annoying_one Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 Wanna get drunk? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 Just now, The_annoying_one said: Wanna get drunk? Only if it kills me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_annoying_one Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 2 minutes ago, Greeny said: Only if it kills me. I can’t be party to that. Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 1 minute ago, The_annoying_one said: I can’t be party to that. Sorry. I still appreciate the offer. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicinumatt Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 damn, seems a bit immature to me.. But if a friend of 18 years is willing to end a friendship over that, maybe it is for the best. Let her do her thing haha she'll probably be back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_annoying_one Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 4 minutes ago, Greeny said: I still appreciate the offer. Anytime, sir. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 1 minute ago, atomicinumatt said: damn, seems a bit immature to me.. But if a friend of 18 years is willing to end a friendship over that, maybe it is for the best. Let her do her thing haha she'll probably be back. Actually her bf is threatened by me because she and I were a thing for a while. She seems to like him though and wants to make it work, which I understand, as much as I hate it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insipid Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 Just now, Greeny said: Actually her bf is threatened by me because she and I were a thing for a while. She seems to like him though and wants to make it work, which I understand, as much as I hate it. Do you still try to make, or hope, that you and her are still a thing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasqueradeOverture Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 Ah... an Elaine situation, huh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 4 minutes ago, Insipid said: Do you still try to make, or hope, that you and her are still a thing? Hope, kind of. I don't act on it though. I think the hardest part is that she's really the only person I talk to. I'm just kind of lost, if that makes sense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 5 minutes ago, MasqueradeOverture said: Ah... an Elaine situation, huh? Elaine from Seinfeld? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicinumatt Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 3 minutes ago, Greeny said: Elaine from Seinfeld? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 Meh, i have one of those, but she never really "dumped" me like that.....I just kind of back off and she finds her way back....We don't talk about our little 6 month fling and at the time she made it clear I was just dick. Now she doesn't gaf, she talks to me no matter what situation we're in and we kinda cant hide that we at least passively communicate....We share streaming services. So my name is on all of hers that she pays for and her name is on all of mine. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 8 minutes ago, André Toulon said: Meh, i have one of those, but she never really "dumped" me like that.....I just kind of back off and she finds her way back....We don't talk about our little 6 month fling and at the time she made it clear I was just dick. Now she doesn't gaf, she talks to me no matter what situation we're in and we kinda cant hide that we at least passively communicate....We share streaming services. So my name is on all of hers that she pays for and her name is on all of mine. That's the kind of situation I'm hoping for. I just want her to talk to. That's enough for me as long as she's happy. She's been there for 18 years and now she's not. It's literally life changing and Idk how to deal with it. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 Seems to me bit of more of a controlling thing from the guy but I'm never been in a relationship myself so I can only judge by observing and I have seen a lot of bad relationships 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 6, 2023 Author Share Posted August 6, 2023 51 minutes ago, ghostrek said: Seems to me bit of more of a controlling thing from the guy but I'm never been in a relationship myself so I can only judge by observing and I have seen a lot of bad relationships That's what I told her. Not to mention the other red flags she mentioned. I'm hoping he shows how much of an asshole he is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted August 6, 2023 Share Posted August 6, 2023 1 minute ago, Greeny said: That's what I told her. Not to mention the other red flags she mentioned. I'm hoping he shows how much of an asshole he is. That's a lot of people in relationships I don't see the bad until too late Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 7, 2023 Share Posted August 7, 2023 That sucks big ol red flag against whomever she’s with 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 7, 2023 Author Share Posted August 7, 2023 9 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: That sucks big ol red flag against whomever she’s with I tried to tell her. He get's to talk to all of his female friends though. That's what fucking pisses me off the most. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 7, 2023 Share Posted August 7, 2023 51 minutes ago, Greeny said: I tried to tell her. He get's to talk to all of his female friends though. That's what fucking pisses me off the most. It’s totally not cool at all. Hope he’s not isolating her from her female friends too but in my experience it doesn’t stop at male friends. Eventually it becomes all friends. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 7, 2023 Author Share Posted August 7, 2023 5 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: It’s totally not cool at all. Hope he’s not isolating her from her female friends too but in my experience it doesn’t stop at male friends. Eventually it becomes all friends. Well I'm not going to go into anymore detail about her relationship but I can absolutely see that happening already. I just hope she realizes sooner rather than later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 7, 2023 Share Posted August 7, 2023 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: It’s totally not cool at all. Hope he’s not isolating her from her female friends too but in my experience it doesn’t stop at male friends. Eventually it becomes all friends. I dated a chick like that...first it was my female friends, then it was my single male friends, then it was even the couples and I was like "damn, is it really worth all this cocaine if she's the only person i ever get to be around" and for about 8 months total, it was....then she attacked my mom. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 8, 2023 Share Posted August 8, 2023 2 hours ago, Greeny said: Well I'm not going to go into anymore detail about her relationship but I can absolutely see that happening already. I just hope she realizes sooner rather than later. Hopefully it all works out and you can be there for her once she gets away from him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 8, 2023 Share Posted August 8, 2023 54 minutes ago, André Toulon said: I dated a chick like that...first it was my female friends, then it was my single male friends, then it was even the couples and I was like "damn, is it really worth all this cocaine if she's the only person i ever get to be around" and for about 8 months total, it was....then she attacked my mom. I was with a guy like that lost jobs over it and everything. He would sit outside my job and just wait my entire shift. I couldn’t do anything without getting the third degree. People like that are NEVER worth it. Even ethey give you drugs cuz that’s another way to be controlling 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 8, 2023 Author Share Posted August 8, 2023 4 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: Hopefully it all works out and you can be there for her once she gets away from him I told her I'll be here if she needs me. It's out of my hands now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naraku360 Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 (edited) On 8/5/2023 at 8:52 PM, Greeny said: Actually her bf is threatened by me because she and I were a thing for a while. She seems to like him though and wants to make it work, which I understand, as much as I hate it. Isolation is textbook abuse. Red flags, my dude. If a partner wants to control who her friends are, he's probably not going to respect what she wants elsewhere. Edited August 9, 2023 by naraku360 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 (edited) 14 minutes ago, naraku360 said: Isolation is textbook abuse. Red flags, my dude. If a partner wants to control who her friends are, he's probably not going to respect what she wants elsewhere. my thoughts exactly, this a serious red flag, it is not healthy to dictate who one's partners can and can't be friends with. edit: repeating that probably isn't helpful at this point. so the best i can do is internet hugs *hugs* sorry this is happening. such bullshit Edited August 9, 2023 by Lynnrael Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 9, 2023 Author Share Posted August 9, 2023 5 hours ago, naraku360 said: Isolation is textbook abuse. Red flags, my dude. If a partner wants to control who her friends are, he's probably not going to respect what she wants elsewhere. You're preaching to the choir. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted August 9, 2023 Author Share Posted August 9, 2023 5 hours ago, Lynnrael said: my thoughts exactly, this a serious red flag, it is not healthy to dictate who one's partners can and can't be friends with. edit: repeating that probably isn't helpful at this point. so the best i can do is internet hugs *hugs* sorry this is happening. such bullshit Appreciate it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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