jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 Ok, so after getting tired of Camo guy's shit at the end of the spring, I told some friends how he sends me right wing news and how he is asshole and boom! He doesn't get invited to a party, and throws one of the biggest hissy fits in history about this. Honestly I was more worried about the friend that he lived with and how I messed up her opportunities. But we had a chat and fixed it. But this boiiiiiii... Honestly, there are zero feelings of romancce for him cause he is like the most scared, insecure man I have ever met in my life. So last week I finally got to move into the 25yr old and up housing, and guess who lives here too! Spoiler Yup! And guess what folks, he hates my fucking guts!! We weren't talking all summer so I thought I we could have a chat about our living situation to which he blew up like the 5 year old he is screaming saying "YOU FUCKING BITCH, YOU RUINED MY LIFE!!" 🤣🤣🤣 Honestly, I thought I would be more upset by this, but seeing him screaming his head off like that just makes me think of pathetic he is. Like wow, prison really left you a child. I did tell him this. Honestly, I'm starting to feel really bad for the guy cause if he thinks missing one party ruined his life, he did not have much of a life to begin with. In fact, when I was talking to our mutual friend who was living with him, she told me quarantine made him worse. That I was actually one of his few friends on campus, and never goes out to talk to anyone. He also got really, really skinny and lost a lot of muscle mass. And the thing about his right wing views, it's becoming clear that he has a parasocial relationship with his favorite commentators. Like he listens to every word, cause deep down he views them as friends, and yet all this news does is push him further to be afraid of the world around him. He is always screaming that a marxist mob is going to come and beat him up for his dissenting opinions. Like full on paranoid hermit at this point. And honestly, weak men disgust me. Like it takes a lot for me to be attracted to someone, but I hate weak men, mostly out of the fact, that I have to deal with the same shit, if not more than these assholes, but I'm expected to get my shit together. I just hate men that act like babies or want to be babies. I also like helping my friends, and after all the dumb shit he is doing, like not taking responsibilities for the things he has said, I still feel bad for him. And I want to help him grow the fuck up. But can't because he hates me so much he does want to see me. But him being cooped up in that room isn't good for him. Plus he blocked me on instagram and social media which is low key hilarious. But like I said, still worried about his isolation. Idk, I got a huge class load this semester and a dying grandma, I shouldn't be giving him any energy and focus on my grades and family. But feel like I should check up on him in a month or something. 😐 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsaneFox Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 (edited) Not your job, not your problem. I know that may be a bit callous, but obviously he isn't worth the energy. You didn't make him the way he is, you aren't the cause of his insecurities or his introversion. Plus going and checking up on him may have the opposite effect. Quite frankly, Edited August 24, 2020 by InsaneFox 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 10 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: Not your job, not your problem. I know that may be a bit callous, but obviously he isn't worth the energy. You didn't make him the way he is, you aren't the cause of his insecurities or his introversion. Plus going and checking up on him may have the opposite effect. Quite frankly, You're right, caring for him does make him hate me. Maybe I should just leave him alone to wallow 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 On the one hand, it's nice to be on the outside of watching a person going through the kind of insecurities you experienced. On the other hand, you do not want any part of a protracted decent into madness, especially not with someone as volatile as he is. Try to engage him as little as possible and watch your back. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 Wow, what a little piece of shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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InsaneFox Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 (edited) I wouldn't even care about him. He's the one who went off the rails, and if at any point you feel guilty about anything regarding him remember that people don't suddenly just become broken (barring extremely traumatic experiences) so he was fucked up well before you even met him. None of his bullshit is on you, and the reason he has no friends is entirely and solely a result of his own actions and life choices. Edited August 24, 2020 by InsaneFox 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 30 minutes ago, scoobdog said: On the one hand, it's nice to be on the outside of watching a person going through the kind of insecurities you experienced. On the other hand, you do not want any part of a protracted decent into madness, especially not with someone as volatile as he is. Try to engage him as little as possible and watch your back. Yeah, some of my friends in my last house are legit scared he is gonna try to kill me in my sleep or something. So I do lock my doors, and have pepper spray on my keys. But find myself still worrying about him. Idk, once school starts, I'll be able to focus on assignments. I am gonna start some of my history readings today even though class doesn't start till wednesday. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 32 minutes ago, stilgar said: Wow, what a little piece of shit. He really is, a pathetic, sad little man. But it's like scoob said, I do see my own insecurities in him, and when I see the human side of a lot of people, I feel bad for him. But also, cause he hates me, I should stay away from him. Honestly, all of it is his lost, cause I can be a damn good friend in person. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 18 minutes ago, Kudasai said: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorpat Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 59 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: it's becoming clear that he has a parasocial relationship with his favorite commentators. This is part of why the modern internet, with the commentators, youtubers, and twitch people, is so toxic. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 16 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: I wouldn't even care about him. He's the one who went off the rails, and if at any point you feel guilty about anything regarding him remember that people don't suddenly just become broken (barring extremely traumatic experiences) so he was fucked up well before you even met him. None of his bullshit is on you, and the reason he has no friends is entirely and solely a result of his own actions and life choices. I do agree with all of this now. Especially after talking with our mutual friend. He is creator of his own destiny, it's just sad to see a man deteriorate slowly. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 Just now, Raptorpat said: This is part of why the modern internet, with the commentators, youtubers, and twitch people, is so toxic. I know a lot of people talk about how the alt right turns these men into dangerous people. But seeing it happen before yours own eyes, is that saddest shit on earth. Like you know he does not have a lot of friends, you know he feels like shit around women, (he once told me he wanted a mail order bride), he is so fake with his gold chains and false bravado but to see him turn to youtubers like father figures and friends is just so damn sad. And his outbursts of anger are clearly about his trauma he refuses to face. It's just so damn sad. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsaneFox Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 1 minute ago, jackiemarie90 said: I know a lot of people talk about how the alt right turns these men into dangerous people. But seeing it happen before yours own eyes, is that saddest shit on earth. Like you know he does not have a lot of friends, you know he feels like shit around women, (he once told me he wanted a mail order bride), he is so fake with his gold chains and false bravado but to see him turn to youtubers like father figures and friends is just so damn sad. And his outbursts of anger are clearly about his trauma he refuses to face. It's just so damn sad. I normally have enough tolerance to keep in contact with people I grow to dislike or even downright hate. If they wanna stick around, that's fine, I have no problem calling people out on their bullshit. But not too long ago I had to cut ties with somebody because it got to the point where he would just text me Red Pill Hitler Memes and stuff about POC being ran over by cars that I was like. "Honestly man, I don't know if you were secretly like this when we were friends. But you're just a piece of shit, and I'm done. I hope you die content with your life choices." And when I lived in North Carolina we were really close friends, so seeing him spiral into that Far Right insanity was just... abberative and disgusting. It's just unbelievable at what we can become. I still have no way of knowing if he became like that or if he just peeled his mask off when the social climate made it comfortable for him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorpat Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 At least with Rush Limbaugh and other talk radio shows, the formal radio format made it more obvious that it's an entertainer to an audience, versus a more intimate experience via youtube etc. that much more easily traps isolated people into the paradoxical relationship. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 You should gather up a group of marxists and beat him. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 5 minutes ago, Raptorpat said: This is part of why the modern internet, with the commentators, youtubers, and twitch people, is so toxic. People don't bother to develop social skills and just become parrots thinking people of differing opinions are just beneath them and incapable of following their logic. And wtf do you do about that? I mean, these people already excluded others from their lives with their personalities, and now when everyone is inside they're all screaming for attention. As though their little daily interactions were all they had going on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 1 minute ago, InsaneFox said: I normally have enough tolerance to keep in contact with people I grow to dislike or even downright hate. If they wanna stick around, that's fine, I have no problem calling people out on their bullshit. But not too long ago I had to cut ties with somebody because it got to the point where he would just text me Red Pill Hitler Memes and stuff about POC being ran over by cars that I was like. "Honestly man, I don't know if you were secretly like this when we were friends. But you're just a piece of shit, and I'm done. I hope you die content with your life choices." And when I lived in North Carolina we were really close friends, so seeing him spiral into that Far Right insanity was just... abberative and disgusting. It's just unbelievable at what we can become. I still have no way of knowing if he became like that or if he just peeled his mask off when the social climate made it comfortable for him. Honestly, I felt like I was being too nice the whole time. I really want to call him out of his shit, and tell him how pathetic he is acting. I have been telling him he is projecting his anger on his trauma on politics and that he is scared. I really think he is being a pussy but I digress, I think telling him this now will also set him off further, he clearly needs some time to himself, just hope he can out think himself out of this situation. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 4 minutes ago, Raptorpat said: At least with Rush Limbaugh and other talk radio shows, the formal radio format made it more obvious that it's an entertainer to an audience, versus a more intimate experience via youtube etc. that much more easily traps isolated people into the paradoxical relationship. I really don't know what to do at this point. I do feel like I do trigger him, cause I don't put up with his bullshit, I don't put up with anyone's bullshit and can be a very confrontational person. I really understand his anger but I don't take it out on people, and just wish he could see how he is destroying himself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, SwimModSponges said: You should gather up a group of marxists and beat him. When I was moving from my old house to this new house, I did tell my friends that anyone who wanted to help me move we should call ourselves the "marxist mob" just to fuck with him. But we didn't. 🤣 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, RainyDayJizz#35 said: People don't bother to develop social skills and just become parrots thinking people of differing opinions are just beneath them and incapable of following their logic. And wtf do you do about that? I mean, these people already excluded others from their lives with their personalities, and now when everyone is inside they're all screaming for attention. As though their little daily interactions were all they had going on. It is something they have to realize they are doing for themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorpat Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 He desperately needs a hug but he's also not entitled to one outside of professional therapy, except there are probably ethical prohibitions to therapists giving their patients a physical hug. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsaneFox Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 1 minute ago, Raptorpat said: He desperately needs a hug but he's also not entitled to one outside of professional therapy, except there are probably ethical prohibitions to therapists giving their patients a physical hug. He definitely needs a hug from a Marxist mob. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorpat Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 I don't think you can beat emotional maturity into someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 10 minutes ago, Raptorpat said: He desperately needs a hug but he's also not entitled to one outside of professional therapy, except there are probably ethical prohibitions to therapists giving their patients a physical hug. Our mutual friend did recommend a therapist for him, god I hope he goes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 (edited) 40 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: He definitely needs a hug from a Marxist mob. 39 minutes ago, Raptorpat said: I don't think you can beat emotional maturity into someone Edit: *sigh* I mean he treats others this way, but I guess it's wrong to want to incite violence. 😐 Edited August 24, 2020 by jackiemarie90 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 32 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: He really is, a pathetic, sad little man. But it's like scoob said, I do see my own insecurities in him, and when I see the human side of a lot of people, I feel bad for him. But also, cause he hates me, I should stay away from him. Honestly, all of it is his lost, cause I can be a damn good friend in person. He is. You may see the insecurities you share with him, but he definitely lacks the mental fortitude to deal with them head on like you have. 17 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Honestly, I felt like I was being too nice the whole time. I really want to call him out of his shit, and tell him how pathetic he is acting. I have been telling him he is projecting his anger on his trauma on politics and that he is scared. I really think he is being a pussy but I digress, I think telling him this now will also set him off further, he clearly needs some time to himself, just hope he can out think himself out of this situation. I would not say you were being too nice, but I would say that he was playing on your vulnerabilities. You knew all along to keep him at a distance, but that didn't change the fact he was offering you companionship when you desperately needed it.. That 's the worst part of all this - you had every right to expect companionship without being used in return, and you did all the right things leading up to this. And you still got shit on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 21 minutes ago, scoobdog said: He is. You may see the insecurities you share with him, but he definitely lacks the mental fortitude to deal with them head on like you have. I would not say you were being too nice, but I would say that he was playing on your vulnerabilities. You knew all along to keep him at a distance, but that didn't change the fact he was offering you companionship when you desperately needed it.. That 's the worst part of all this - you had every right to expect companionship without being used in return, and you did all the right things leading up to this. And you still got shit on. I think most people do, my mental fortitude was build out of necessity. But I think prison really stopped him from growing up, which is sad. It's honestly his mistake, he is an idiot, not academically per se, but not realizing that I'm actually a really good friend to have at Cal cause I carried him through 1 class, helped him get a 5000 scholarship, and girls like me a lot so if he was any kind of smart, he could also use me for dating advice, I just liked smoking and watching dumb movies with someone. I have no sexual desires cause of my depression but he is just a big fucking idiot pushing people away. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 So.....he's single? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, Mix said: So.....he's single? Please, pursue him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 10 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Please, pursue him. ok, but to be clear, you got the free weed without putting out, right? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 10 minutes ago, Mix said: ok, but to be clear, you got the free weed without putting out, right? Only 1 time, then he was extreme asshole after he realized I wouldn't sleep with him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 4 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Only 1 time, then he was extreme asshole after he realized I wouldn't sleep with him. ah, I see......never mind then 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginguy Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 1 hour ago, Raptorpat said: I don't think you can beat emotional maturity into someone I don't think it is particularly wise to post on a public forum about gathering a Marxist mob to beat someone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InsaneFox Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 11 minutes ago, Ginguy said: I don't think it is particularly wise to post on a public forum about gathering a Marxist mob to beat someone. It’s a good thing we’re talking about the Marxist mob giving him hugs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 42 minutes ago, Ginguy said: I don't think it is particularly wise to post on a public forum about gathering a Marxist mob to beat someone. it's this kind of stuff that concerns me seems like the makings of a setup suddenly we're not making jokes, but statements hang out in rants with this bullshit, dude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginguy Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 1 hour ago, InsaneFox said: It’s a good thing we’re talking about the Marxist mob giving him hugs. Are we now? 3 hours ago, SwimModSponges said: You should gather up a group of marxists and beat him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 24, 2020 Author Share Posted August 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, Ginguy said: Are we now? Yeah, no one is gonna come to the bay to beat up this guy. Honestly, if anything it shows how his shit behavior is the actual thing that gets him in trouble. All this unhealthy fear is what pushes him further into this mentality that makes him an asshole. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginguy Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 33 minutes ago, Mix said: it's this kind of stuff that concerns me seems like the makings of a setup suddenly we're not making jokes, but statements hang out in rants with this bullshit, dude I am merely pointing out that making statements about violent assaults on people is not a good idea. The current climate is not conducive to that sort of "joking", be it here really anywhere. That is my concern, that someone will make a "joke" and end up getting in serious trouble. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted August 24, 2020 Share Posted August 24, 2020 You are merely being a piece of shit jingo. So why don't you stop being a coward and defend the chode for being one of your sides chodes. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 25, 2020 Author Share Posted August 25, 2020 12 minutes ago, Ginguy said: I am merely pointing out that making statements about violent assaults on people is not a good idea. The current climate is not conducive to that sort of "joking", be it here really anywhere. That is my concern, that someone will make a "joke" and end up getting in serious trouble. If you truly believe that, then you should hate this guy, and not defend him. He is more violent than I've been telling. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Ginguy said: I am merely pointing out that making statements about violent assaults on people is not a good idea. The current climate is not conducive to that sort of "joking", be it here really anywhere. That is my concern, that someone will make a "joke" and end up getting in serious trouble. How about you not derail the thread with your concern troll, fuck face? Edited August 25, 2020 by scoobdog 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 3 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: If you truly believe that, then you should hate this guy, and not defend him. He is more violent than I've been telling. This dude sounds unhinged. Have you talked with the university health center yet? That might be the best way to express concern for your own safety without necessarily going to the cops right away. Of course, that's also assuming he hasn't directly threatened you yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 25, 2020 Author Share Posted August 25, 2020 2 minutes ago, scoobdog said: This dude sounds unhinged. Have you talked with the university health center yet? That might be the best way to express concern for your own safety without necessarily going to the cops right away. Of course, that's also assuming he hasn't directly threatened you yet. He 100 percent is unhinged. He really is unstable. But me reporting something would fuck him up because he already has a record. I would literally be making his life worse. But right now he considers me his literal tormentor, since I ruined his life. So he is purposely staying away. Which I think is ridiculous, and low key hilarious. (like these men make me seem more powerful than actually am. lol) Right now I am the villain in his story, cause he is that warped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 You should probably start carrying a gun in case you need to kill him in self defense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 25, 2020 Author Share Posted August 25, 2020 5 minutes ago, SwimModSponges said: You should probably start carrying a gun in case you need to kill him in self defense. I do have 2 bottles of pepper spray with me. If it came to a physical fight again, I think quarantine has really weakened him, he looks like a skeleton and I'm pretty sure I could take him right now if I wanted to. But I really don't want to fight this guy. I just see an equally sad person like myself, but I know he doesn't care the same way I do. It's not his fault per se, he really is just fucked up. I think the best is for me to avoid him and focus on my studies and also do 7am yoga at the house and get to know everyone else. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 You're not being helpful @SwimModSponges. 8 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: He 100 percent is unhinged. He really is unstable. But me reporting something would fuck him up because he already has a record. I would literally be making his life worse. But right now he considers me his literal tormentor, since I ruined his life. So he is purposely staying away. Which I think is ridiculous, and low key hilarious. (like these men make me seem more powerful than actually am. lol) Right now I am the villain in his story, cause he is that warped. That's why I'm suggesting the health center. But, at this point, you can't factor in his well being because he is dangerous. The fact he's staying away from you might be good in the short term, but I can almost guarantee that he's building that grudge even without interaction with you. I'm sorry, I'm being a little alarmist here. I still think its important you talk about your concerns with someone in a position to help you if things explode on you. You need a contingency plan in place just in case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginguy Posted August 25, 2020 Share Posted August 25, 2020 43 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: If you truly believe that, then you should hate this guy, and not defend him. He is more violent than I've been telling. If he is being violent towards you or anyone else you should tell the police. If he is a danger to himself or others, particularly if he owns or has access to firearms, the police should be involved. He sounds like he needs to talk to someone, at the very least maybe a 72 hr eval to make sure he isn't a danger to himself or others. Hate isn't the answer, hate will only force him to lash out in hate. You shouldn't be near him, but if you know any of his friends you might want to ask them to chat with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 25, 2020 Author Share Posted August 25, 2020 36 minutes ago, scoobdog said: You're not being helpful @SwimModSponges. That's why I'm suggesting the health center. But, at this point, you can't factor in his well being because he is dangerous. The fact he's staying away from you might be good in the short term, but I can almost guarantee that he's building that grudge even without interaction with you. I'm sorry, I'm being a little alarmist here. I still think its important you talk about your concerns with someone in a position to help you if things explode on you. You need a contingency plan in place just in case. Well luckily this house I'm currently staying out has a lot more men than women here. >__> So I feel safe living in student housing. He might develop a grudge, it's so easy for him to blame others for the problems in his life. Really I caught most of his ire since he came to Cal. I was his mental punching bag, he would always call me stupid when I tried to debate him, that's why it's so clear it isn't about politics, and just him wanting to rage at something. But our mutual friend may be the key to getting him to calm the fuck down. At least I hope. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted August 25, 2020 Author Share Posted August 25, 2020 11 minutes ago, Ginguy said: If he is being violent towards you or anyone else you should tell the police. If he is a danger to himself or others, particularly if he owns or has access to firearms, the police should be involved. He sounds like he needs to talk to someone, at the very least maybe a 72 hr eval to make sure he isn't a danger to himself or others. Hate isn't the answer, hate will only force him to lash out in hate. You shouldn't be near him, but if you know any of his friends you might want to ask them to chat with him. He currently doesn't have a firearm, what worries me the most, is that he is an addict. He went to prison for selling drugs. He still has access to these drugs. When he drinks hard liquor he starts swinging and yelling. I really am scared for his own benefit, he has so many unhealthy qualities, and I don't want to see him hurt. Just space between us is best for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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