death_by_motorboat Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 (edited) If you are in a conversation that for some reason goes bad, and you are offended by the way the communication has gone, and disrespect has taken over, do you ever become insulting and mean, trying to resolve it? Personally i hate when a conversation goes that direction, and everyone is grabbing at whatever insults they can to make life miserable for one another. I always regret what i say when i'm mad because even though insults maybe an edge and have some traction they become a sorrow and guilt shortly after. Edited January 25, 2018 by mumbojummie13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neko Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 Been through that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 Well then stop feeling sorry after you lash out. As the saying goes, you made your bed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 1 minute ago, bnmjy said: Well then stop feeling sorry after you lash out. As the saying goes, you made your bed. i scare myself though. for me its more like i made my nightmares, now go sleep in hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 3 minutes ago, Neko said: Been through that. sometimes its hard to recover from Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sieg67 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 I never do straight up insulting. Maybe some sick sarcasm to prove a point. Gotta learn how to keep your cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 I only do it when i'm awake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 I always try to talkm out a problem in a cool and collected manner. Sometimes i get frustrated and shout (for which i apologize directly after [sometimes while still yelling]), but ive never gotten to the point where i just throw insults. Thats not productive to open communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 35 minutes ago, SwimModSponges said: I always try to talkm out a problem in a cool and collected manner. Sometimes i get frustrated and shout (for which i apologize directly after [sometimes while still yelling]), but ive never gotten to the point where i just throw insults. Thats not productive to open communication. i knwo and its immediately embarrassing afterwards, like you became a fool for a few seconds or now youve offended someone youd rather have on your side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 (edited) Sometimes you just have to yell though, you know? Got into a fight with Dr. Girlfriend last night; ended up shouting, getting all up in her face at one point because she tried to tell me I was afraid of her. Silence for about 20 minutes after that, but then once we cooled down we had a productive conversation about the things that were bothering us which ended with a super cheesey quote: "We love people because of their flaws; we see the gaps that we can fill in, and we have gaps that they can fill.We're pieces of a puzzle that fit together" Well then I started crying. Almost started again while typing this. So that's my overshare for the day. Edited January 25, 2018 by SwimModSponges Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lasty Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 (edited) Yeah, it's not cool to be mean and junk, but sometimes you gotta tell a motherfucker to fuck the fuck off. Some people don't get it and the kindest thing you can do for them is to let them know you don't appreciate their shenanigans, you don't appreciate them not caring that you don't appreciate it and that your nice guy attitude is not an invitation to continue with such childish antics because they think it's funny or what have you. There are some things you just shouldn't make an attempt to tolerate. So we start to look for red flags and we get better at picking our battles. It'd be nice if everyone could get along all the time but in today's day and age most people are retards. *shrug* Edited January 25, 2018 by Lasty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad_Witch Posted January 26, 2018 Share Posted January 26, 2018 Do I try? No Does it happen anyway? You betcha...alot 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted January 26, 2018 Share Posted January 26, 2018 I just say offensive things because I think its funny. Over the years, I've gradually been less and less of a pussy who gets offended by pointless insults. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted January 26, 2018 Share Posted January 26, 2018 On 1/25/2018 at 2:28 AM, mumbojummie13 said: If you are in a conversation that for some reason goes bad, and you are offended by the way the communication has gone, and disrespect has taken over, do you ever become insulting and mean, trying to resolve it? Personally i hate when a conversation goes that direction, and everyone is grabbing at whatever insults they can to make life miserable for one another. I always regret what i say when i'm mad because even though insults maybe an edge and have some traction they become a sorrow and guilt shortly after. There is no “try”....I am verbally offensive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted January 26, 2018 Share Posted January 26, 2018 Well, to really be verbally offensive takes a whole lot of creative work, so no, I don't usually try. Sometimes I get inspired, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nameraka Posted January 26, 2018 Share Posted January 26, 2018 verbally offensive is kind of my default. the downside is that most of my friends just laugh it off now and can't really tell when i'm pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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