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What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
Ok, every soft phase/soft guy era video is on tiktok and I'm not making an account for that...I'll make one more attempt and put it in my FB search, but istg I don't want to do this because it'll never go away. Guess I'll log into the buddyroe account. But since they are both linked to my Google, I'm sure it'll infect both -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
OMG, I hate how this site is structured sometimes....my answers are in your quotes on my post, Vamped. -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
My point being, if a woman makes a "masculine" move, she will be applauded while men doing what they just consider a move to peace is a toxic trait....how dare he put her on the street with no money, no shelter, no way to fend for herself. So to stay on topic and not make this a men vs women thing, a lot of dudes are using femininity as a means to level the playing field.....I'm not doing it, personally....I'm ok with just being called a jerk, but the paradigm of masculinity has taken an extremely jarring shift and it's why I made my original stance that there can't be a serious consensus. I assume some of these dudes are serious, but some are just plain trolling. -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
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rants Haters/Complainers: Legacy of Spleen
André Toulon replied to mthor's topic in General Discussion
I fucking hate people who think you are other people and then when you tell them you aren't the person that they think you are, they get offended....this is why I don't socialize anymore. People think you are obligated to make them secure in being blatantly wrong. Yeah, remember....we were at Leon's I don't know Leon Yes you do, you and your old lady were trying to have a baby Definitely not sir, I moved here with my kids and have not been trying with anyone to make more ... definitely not in the capacity that I was discussing it with you. Yeah because you tried to get me to come to Michelin LOOK WORRISOME ASS N#&&@, I DONT KNOW YOU....YOU DONT KNOW ME....FUCK ALL THE WAY OFF DUDE.🤬 -
What Are You Thinking About Right Now?
André Toulon replied to DragonSinger's topic in General Discussion
I just saw help me on the contributors list... Where does he post...I don't recall seeing him at all. Is he just in toonami now? -
EVERYBODY BE COOL. THIS IS A ROBBERY!
André Toulon replied to nameraka's topic in General Discussion
My kids bought some...they said it sucks...I gotta ask what they said it tasted like...it was very specific. I wanted no part of it -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
He need you to talk to him so he can ignore it or dismiss it with "ok" -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
Cool, we can agree there. So if a "man" has all of these qualities and can do all of these tings before getting into a relationship.....What is his incentive to to attach himself to a woman. I know you won't say vagina, because that devalues the entire thing. So once a man is a "man", does he seek a woman that lacks these things. Clearly a woman who has these bare minimums can't really leverage herself in such a way that one couldnt survive without the other. The men that gravitate to those women are the ones who do not have it together...looking for a new mommy....Much in the same way that women who can't manage their money, get their car repaired, clean a home, or help with family issues would seek a parter who can....looking for a daddy. The ideal of independence AND the need for constant companionship don't go hand in hand in a "masculine" minds set....And that's when masculinity is considered toxic. So now we have passport bros, Soft Phase dudes, and whatever else they are calling themselves now, because the archaic definition of masculinity is taboo. Again we delve into double standards....Where a woman who can do bad by herself is empowered but a male that does the same is labled toxic....Something must be wrong with him to be single. But it's not....When you do it all yourself, there is no need for another other than carnal pleasure in a "masculine" mindset. Now there are exceptions to the rule, but I've not encountered it personally and I would wager you haven't either, but I'm willing to lose that bet....Have you met the male with the quality checklist that you would consider a man that's in a relationship with a woman who can do it herself? -
Apparently I'm at my funniest when I'm dead ass
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What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
Ok no that was the right pic....I was wondering why I had 22 lives, I just realized arcade on switch has a setting where you get an extra at every 100k. I knew I didn't cheat but that pic me made me think I did and that was an old one, but nope...that's it. I had 17 killing the boss gave me 5 lives lol. I seriously didn't know I was collecting lives like that -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
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What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
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What Are You Thinking About Right Now?
André Toulon replied to DragonSinger's topic in General Discussion
I didn't have my glasses on so I thought I was watching shin chan....but no, I'm watching something literally called shin chan spin off.....wtf is this trash. But it's noise so might as well let it run it's course -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
God I'd kill for a Guinness. That flavor was one of the things I truly loved about stouts -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
I'll reel it in here a bit. But that just means I'm back to speaking on my situation since it's the one I'm most familiar with The kids mom and I get along sooooo much better separately. Because together it was a perpetual pissing match and we both had full bladders. She knows how to make money, she rarely asks me for anything.... conversely, she knows I don't need her to cook, clean, or iron a damn thing for me. I raised my sister as a child...I was my mom's stay at home husband (pause) so you can't win me over with domestics (I have long decided laundry can stay in the basket until I need it) and I couldn't win with her with money. But the difference is, she's still actively looking for a husband....for whatever reason, so I don't know what kind of "man" would fit into her world. I'm cool with paying for a nurse when I start to shit myself -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
We all knew where those posts were going to end up and none of it is a discussion on the modern concept of a man...it's always going to be a pity party....every single time -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
🧌Interesting😏. Well, I guess it's ok for me to ignore the broad strokes now, touching only on the extreme ends of this whole thing...the men who want to ridicule equality into a spiteful game of "how do you like it" and the women who hold fast to the notion they ain't gotta do nothing but fuck. Let's cut into the center....sweep those incels and the golddiggers to the side...let's bite into the independent women and the apathetic and emotionally unavailable men. You have a woman with a career, a home and makes her own way financially, only for some dick toting charlatan to come in and promise the world, but his world is sports, bad hygiene, and community tallywacker. Well, I think it's evident that he's not a man, nor is he masculine. Can he reshingle the roof, snake a toilet, build a she shed.... likely, no. He's the worst of the worst and yet is also the most popular. It seems this guy somehow infects the lives of all women at some point. But one would ask.....HOW? Is it because he's the most attractive option, or is it because men of a higher caliber aren't looking to attach themselves to a headache that lacks any sort of accountability when it comes to choosing the right partner. A single man with a career, assets, and potential isn't looking for a woman that is going to use her career and assets as leverage. Only lazy chuds that needs a new mommy are willing to perpetually hear the old "I can do bad by myself" chant. But before I start fapping too hard here, I'll ask instead of just making anecdotal claims. For a man, to be a man....how many of these must he be able to check off. Able to fix, build and repair things Able to provide Able to protect (not calling the police... legitimately able to fight off an attacker that means his partner harm) Able to be emotionally available at all times Willing to listen and solve the problems of their partner Exhibit exemplary hygiene and organizational skills. Able to plan and lead the partner or family into prosperity. How many of these check marks can he miss and still be considered a man. -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
Meanwhile, stoned molarbear.... "This is a tarp" -
EVERYBODY BE COOL. THIS IS A ROBBERY!
André Toulon replied to nameraka's topic in General Discussion
Ya know....I'm kinda disappointed that I know the name of this song now. I always just called it the Pulp Fiction theme -
Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal lord and savior?
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EVERYBODY BE COOL. THIS IS A ROBBERY!
André Toulon replied to nameraka's topic in General Discussion
🔫*click clack* Reach in your bag and get my wallet. It's the one that says pansy ass Mama's boy -
What is the modern definition of "masculinity?"
André Toulon replied to scoobdog's topic in General Discussion
We can both be long winded af, it might come from my old college days for me. -
What Are You Thinking About Right Now?
André Toulon replied to DragonSinger's topic in General Discussion
The outshine "alleged real" fruit bars are my new jam, and I AM NOT going to look at the ingredients or nutritional facts.