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So my coordinator told me to call her tonight to work out some details. Never said a time for sure but I just called her around the time I usually do when we've chatted in the past. No answer. Texted her asking when we could talk and tried calling again a half hour later. No response after over an hour. This does not help my anxiety

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57 minutes ago, Athena 92 said:

So my coordinator told me to call her tonight to work out some details. Never said a time for sure but I just called her around the time I usually do when we've chatted in the past. No answer. Texted her asking when we could talk and tried calling again a half hour later. No response after over an hour. This does not help my anxiety

Is it rude to text her and be like, "Hey I understand if things happen and you can't talk when you originally planned on it but can you please try to communicate with me when that happens because it makes me really anxious to not hear from you"? Like I'm sure everything's fine and something just came up for her and we'll talk tomorrow but part of me is like, "What if it's not okay and this person who is supposed to be handling all of the decor, and the flowers, and the linens, and the centerpieces, and the day of coordination, and the set up and tear down at the ceremony venue is suddenly unable to do any of that and now it's all up to you with 9 days notice???" and I can't shut off that part of my brain and I feel like I'm about to have a panic attack over it like I literally feel sick to my stomach just overthinking about this.

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11 minutes ago, Athena 92 said:

Is it rude to text her and be like, "Hey I understand if things happen and you can't talk when you originally planned on it but can you please try to communicate with me when that happens because it makes me really anxious to not hear from you"? Like I'm sure everything's fine and something just came up for her and we'll talk tomorrow but part of me is like, "What if it's not okay and this person who is supposed to be handling all of the decor, and the flowers, and the linens, and the centerpieces, and the day of coordination, and the set up and tear down at the ceremony venue is suddenly unable to do any of that and now it's all up to you with 9 days notice???" and I can't shut off that part of my brain and I feel like I'm about to have a panic attack over it like I literally feel sick to my stomach just overthinking about this.

i wouldn't honestly. keep the texts for your record and mention it tomorrow

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Just now, Athena 92 said:

Assuming I don't have a panic attack and die before tomorrow

i mean it's almost 10pm. if she hasn't texted you at this point i doubt she will. if you want to go Naraku on her, call her from a different phone number to see if she' was trying to ignore you and pick it up

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3 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

i mean it's almost 10pm. if she hasn't texted you at this point i doubt she will. if you want to go Naraku on her, call her from a different phone number to see if she' was trying to ignore you and pick it up

I would hope the fact that I've already given her over 2 grand to do her job would mean she's not ignoring me on purpose. Would just be nice to get a text back or something to confirm that and shut off the irrational anxiety thoughts section of my brain that I know is probably irrational but still won't shut up

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11 hours ago, Naraku4656 said:

i mean it's almost 10pm. if she hasn't texted you at this point i doubt she will. if you want to go Naraku on her, call her from a different phone number to see if she' was trying to ignore you and pick it up

I just might try calling her from my work phone this afternoon if I still don't hear anything. I texted her again this morning and still nothing. My coordinator should be making me feel like everything will be okay but at this point she's just the source of my anxiety

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48 minutes ago, Athena 92 said:

I just might try calling her from my work phone this afternoon if I still don't hear anything. I texted her again this morning and still nothing. My coordinator should be making me feel like everything will be okay but at this point she's just the source of my anxiety

Ok yeah. If she's not responding now, I would be panicking too

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