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It started off that I was hanging out with a friend in class, and I mentioned going to the gym afterwards and she said she had to go and wanted to go with me. It was cool, then afterwards we ran into a cool classmate I had a class with over the summer and now. He offered us a ride to the bart but then mentioned a festival in downtown and we both said we wanted to go. But I looked ugly, My makeup was off, I was all sweaty from the gym and I was wearing sweats. 😅We got high and drunk and were walking basically for 3-4 hours in downtown Oakland. Until we ended the night at Chicken and Waffles. It was interesting, I went off and had a great time when I found like 2 people watched Yu-gi-oh and one of them was a hardcore fan of Seven Deadly Sins. 😁 He even knew more knowledge that me about Meliodas and Lostvanye. But it also got weird, another guy in the group who doesn't like anime was kinda hitting on me hard. >_> He kept saying he wanted to touch my alpaca sweater, when we went to the restaurant he really wanted to sit next to me, like telling other people to move. It was weird and he wanted to hold my arm and I kinda said no a little quietly but I felt bad cause he would look upset but I just didn't really want to be touched. Anyways I ordered fries and he ate some of my food and didn't get food of his own. 😐 And then I ubered home. lol

 

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29 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

It started off that I was hanging out with a friend in class, and I mentioned going to the gym afterwards and she said she had to go and wanted to go with me. It was cool, then afterwards we ran into a cool classmate I had a class with over the summer and now. He offered us a ride to the bart but then mentioned a festival in downtown and we both said we wanted to go. But I looked ugly, My makeup was off, I was all sweaty from the gym and I was wearing sweats. 😅We got high and drunk and were walking basically for 3-4 hours in downtown Oakland. Until we ended the night at Chicken and Waffles. It was interesting, I went off and had a great time when I found like 2 people watched Yu-gi-oh and one of them was a hardcore fan of Seven Deadly Sins. 😁 He even knew more knowledge that me about Meliodas and Lostvanye. But it also got weird, another guy in the group who doesn't like anime was kinda hitting on me hard. >_> He kept saying he wanted to touch my alpaca sweater, when we went to the restaurant he really wanted to sit next to me, like telling other people to move. It was weird and he wanted to hold my arm and I kinda said no a little quietly but I felt bad cause he would look upset but I just didn't really want to be touched. Anyways I ordered fries and he ate some of my food and didn't get food of his own. 😐 And then I ubered home. lol

 

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Sounds like an adventure. Even if it did get creepy at the end.

I went to an arcade bar the other night and smashed the bar’s asteroids high score. If it doesn’t say FOX at the slot above the bar, they better hope they have insurance.

Sadly, none of the girls I was with wanted to hold my arm.

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12 minutes ago, InsaneFox said:

Sounds like an adventure. Even if it did get creepy at the end.

I went to an arcade bar the other night and smashed the bar’s asteroids high score. If it doesn’t say FOX at the slot above the bar, they better hope they have insurance.

Sadly, none of the girls I was with wanted to hold my arm.

We saw an arcade bar too but it was hella packed so we just kept on walking. lol 

Sometimes girls are just uncomfortable holding arms. They rather get to know a person first, see if their personalities even clicked, and if that person would care about them if their motivation wasn't sexual in nature. 

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Just now, jackiemarie90 said:

We saw an arcade bar too but it was hella packed so we just kept on walking. lol 

Sometimes girls are just uncomfortable holding arms. They rather get to know a person first, see if their personalities even clicked, and if that person would care about them if their motivation wasn't sexual in nature. 

Oh no, you don’t gotta explain shit.

People need to keep their creepy fuckin hands to themselves unless somehow invited.

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2 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said:

It started off that I was hanging out with a friend in class, and I mentioned going to the gym afterwards and she said she had to go and wanted to go with me. It was cool, then afterwards we ran into a cool classmate I had a class with over the summer and now. He offered us a ride to the bart but then mentioned a festival in downtown and we both said we wanted to go. But I looked ugly, My makeup was off, I was all sweaty from the gym and I was wearing sweats. 😅We got high and drunk and were walking basically for 3-4 hours in downtown Oakland. Until we ended the night at Chicken and Waffles. It was interesting, I went off and had a great time when I found like 2 people watched Yu-gi-oh and one of them was a hardcore fan of Seven Deadly Sins. 😁 He even knew more knowledge that me about Meliodas and Lostvanye. But it also got weird, another guy in the group who doesn't like anime was kinda hitting on me hard. >_> He kept saying he wanted to touch my alpaca sweater, when we went to the restaurant he really wanted to sit next to me, like telling other people to move. It was weird and he wanted to hold my arm and I kinda said no a little quietly but I felt bad cause he would look upset but I just didn't really want to be touched. Anyways I ordered fries and he ate some of my food and didn't get food of his own. 😐 And then I ubered home. lol

 

This is awesome except for the food thief trying to be handsy.

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Be bold and tell guys like that to piss off. "Can you keep your hands off me and not touch my food?" I'm a guy and I don't like uninvited touching from women. But even staring bothers me... Be glad guys are awkward if they do shit like that. Most women are pretty subtle and I'm forced to get used to touches at work and stuff, although a lot of it is a cultural thing and it's easy to shrug off as their character. Some cultures are touchy. That guy sounded kinda douchy though.

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1 hour ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

Be bold and tell guys like that to piss off. "Can you keep your hands off me and not touch my food?" I'm a guy and I don't like uninvited touching from women. But even staring bothers me... Be glad guys are awkward if they do shit like that. Most women are pretty subtle and I'm forced to get used to touches at work and stuff, although a lot of it is a cultural thing and it's easy to shrug off as their character. Some cultures are touchy. That guy sounded kinda douchy though.

I just don't want to create awkward social situations, but I do like my boundaries when getting to know a person. I need speak up more about it next time, your right.

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3 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said:

I suppose so. I'm feel weird but I guess I should hang out with people more. Might force me to feel better about it. lol

People can be good. Just be mature to avoid all neg energies and drama like neo dodging bullets. They can be good to get you outta your head.

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6 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

I just don't want to create awkward social situations, but I do like my boundaries when getting to know a person. I need speak up more about it next time, your right.

It's way more awkward for the other person when you call them out like that, and I feel like dudes like that should be called out. And if I helped you with calc, which I hope I did somewhat, don't be afraid to ask for more help. I kinda miss helping people understand math, I enjoy it. To me it's a logical language that a lot of people get hung up on because of a couple rules they don't understand or notice. 

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22 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Yeah it makes me question going to that same event next but we will see. 

If you want to go, do it. But if those same folks are going, say up front you were cool with hanging with most of them except for the food thief who tried to treat you like Lassie. If they give you drama over it, fuck 'em. 

24 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

I just don't want to create awkward social situations, but I do like my boundaries when getting to know a person. I need speak up more about it next time, your right.

It's hard at first to do this, but when you get used to it, you start to give no fucks about making a scene.

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14 minutes ago, SorceressPol said:

If you want to go, do it. But if those same folks are going, say up front you were cool with hanging with most of them except for the food thief who tried to treat you like Lassie. If they give you drama over it, fuck 'em. 

It's hard at first to do this, but when you get used to it, you start to give no fucks about making a scene.

Yah that whole lassie thing was weird but maybe kids act like that these days because too much internet?

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