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I thought about this. I’m pretty content alone. It seems to be less stressful to me and i don’t have to worry about being hurt.

Maybe turn to temporary forms of intimacy. A one night stand that only involves holding me or letting me play with their ear while i get a decent nights sleep.

Almost like the Unsullied seeking comfort from prostitutes with no actual sexual advances.

I’d be content. I’m not sure if i want a relationship anymore. People can’t be trusted.

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34 minutes ago, CutieQuesadilla said:

I thought about this. I’m pretty content alone. It seems to be less stressful to me and i don’t have to worry about being hurt.

Maybe turn to temporary forms of intimacy. A one night stand that only involves holding me or letting me play with their ear while i get a decent nights sleep.

Almost like the Unsullied seeking comfort from prostitutes with no actual sexual advances.

I’d be content. I’m not sure if i want a relationship anymore. People can’t be trusted.

They have to be trusted... you should get a dog or something, at least.

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On 8/15/2018 at 9:43 AM, CutieQuesadilla said:

I thought about this. I’m pretty content alone. It seems to be less stressful to me and i don’t have to worry about being hurt.

Maybe turn to temporary forms of intimacy. A one night stand that only involves holding me or letting me play with their ear while i get a decent nights sleep.

Almost like the Unsullied seeking comfort from prostitutes with no actual sexual advances.

I’d be content. I’m not sure if i want a relationship anymore. People can’t be trusted.

I used to feel exactly like this. I'm very much an introvert, and have had plenty of my own experiences to cause a general mistrust of people. 

I feel very comfortable alone, and I've managed to find someone i can be as comfortable and relaxed with as if I was alone. It's hard to explain, but the gist is i can be myself with her. Not the myself i show to friends and family, but the myself i am when I'm alone. 

Of course it's different for everyone. Some folks are better suited to solitude. 

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On 8/19/2018 at 4:35 PM, Neko said:

Yas   I text but actual touch isn't that bad either.

Ehh .... I need my space... like you wanna cuddle cool .... but I also sometimes want to sit on my own couch ....  you stay on the other couch and we can talk shit together and I'll eventually ease back into the cuddling.

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On 8/19/2018 at 2:37 PM, fuggstop said:

I have huge intimacy issues. I think its from being raised by a drill sargeant who never even hugged me. He showed affection by working and providing. 

Sounds like my Grandpa on my Dad's side. He died shortly before I was born but I've heard stories... I'd rather raise a family that had nothing but each other...

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