Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Gay dudes that say they are about to give a guy a "cunting", I can't help but giggle every time I heard that phrase. Like seriously bro, are you hearing what you are saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cau Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Grab him by the boi pussy. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 ask mochi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 This one is specific to the gay black community, but there is a propensity in "Thug Porn" for black gay dudes calling each other Nigga while buttfucking. It is a bit silly and amusing. On the topic of gay porn in particular, the large usage of poppers in many gangbang scenes... like wtf dude go easy on the damn poppers. I don't need multiple shots of dudes snorting shit during. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 minutes ago, Phillies said: ask mochi I have way more knowledge of this than mochi for many reasons. Not to rag on mochi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: I have way more knowledge of this than mochi for many reasons. Not to rag on mochi. I thought mochi was the queen, I mean King of gay knowledge. He once told me one time gay guys refer to their butt holes as pussys. This went under the bottle cap of a snapple and I respected him ever since. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 Also, another is when gay men go wayyyy too deep into certain fetishes associated with gays. For instance dudes far too deep into the Daddy-Son dynamic. While I personally have no issue with this (in some instances depending on the attractiveness of the men in question this can be rather hot), but there is a certain limit imo to calling another dude Daddy. If you can't refer to another guy without referring to him as "Daddy" you have a serious issue lmfao. Get some variety boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 1 minute ago, Phillies said: I thought mochi was the queen, I mean King of gay knowledge. He once told me one time gay guys refer to their butt holes as pussys. This went under the bottle cap of a snapple and I respected him ever since. Only some gay men refer to their assholes as pussies. This is actually more prevalent in the usage by dominant gay men to refer to bottoms they top. It is usually a playful term. We have many things like that in our language. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: Also, another is when gay men go wayyyy too deep into certain fetishes associated with gays. For instance dudes far too deep into the Daddy-Son dynamic. While I personally have no issue with this (in some instances depending on the attractiveness of the men in question this can be rather hot), but there is a certain limit imo to calling another dude Daddy. If you can't refer to another guy without referring to him as "Daddy" you have a serious issue lmfao. Get some variety boy. There is this gay restaurant near my house. It has awesome food but the whole male staff is totally gay. So naturally of course gay people (mostly men) go there to eat. I've seen a few times a certain demographic going on- And older dude is dating a younger dude but the age gap is way to big... so this makes sense... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 This is one I never understood, gay men who are a bit more on the effeminate side who exaggerate their lisp or pitch of their voices only while around other gay men... but sound normal or much more subtle when not speaking to other gays. I'm not sure if they realize they are doing this or if it is just some weird habit. Either way it is kind of silly to go from one and then hearing another in a different setting. Note, this is not all gay effeminate men, but I have heard this particular quirk from several who are. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cau Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 I would contribute to this but I'm only gayjacent so that would make me uncomfortable 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 1 minute ago, Phillies said: There is this gay restaurant near my house. It has awesome food but the whole male staff is totally gay. So naturally of course gay people (mostly men) go there to eat. I've seen a few times a certain demographic going on- And older dude is dating a younger dude but the age gap is way to big... so this makes sense... This is normalized in much of the gay community, as long as the two are both legal. We do not have nearly as much stigma as straight couples on say a 40-year-old dating someone that is 19 or 20. Of course, this is not the majority but it is generally not looked down upon either the way many straight people would for a 40-year-old man dating a 19-year-old girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: This is one I never understood, gay men who are a bit more on the effeminate side who exaggerate their lisp or pitch of their voices only while around other gay men... but sound normal or much more subtle when not speaking to other gays. I'm not sure if they realize they are doing this or if it is just some weird habit. Either way it is kind of silly to go from one and then hearing another in a different setting. Note, this is not all gay effeminate men, but I have heard this particular quirk from several who are. explain this one to me... this dude in rehab was gay and for all intents and purposes seemed rational. But his boyfriend was actually trying to dress as a girl, talked like a girl and was I am assuming the "girl" in the relationship. So what is the name for this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 This one is fairly uncommon but every once in a while I come across a gay guy that has the habbit of figuring out how and why every male they come across is secretly gay. These types tend to be gossipers too though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Phillies said: explain this one to me... this dude in rehab was gay and for all intents and purposes seemed rational. But his boyfriend was actually trying to dress as a girl, talked like a girl and was I am assuming the "girl" in the relationship. So what is the name for this? Some gay relationships have what might appear to outsiders as pseudo-gender roles, though that is just a point of reference as it is not really comparable to gender. It is really just a way of determining which partner is more emotionally dependent I suppose and/or sexually submissive in the relationship. To straight people look in on it, this is often conflated with the guy being a "woman" in the relationship, when it is rather unlikely that either of them see it that way. Not all gay relationships have roles though, many are very egalitarian or mostly egalitarian. By that I mean there is no perceived difference in emotional dependence or sexual submission from either partner. There are many that are though. This is not really a silly thing btw, just to clarify it is a prominent dynamic in gay relationships. Edited December 12, 2017 by Sandstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 5 minutes ago, Sandstone said: This one is fairly uncommon but every once in a while I come across a gay guy that has the habbit of figuring out how and why every male they come across is secretly gay. These types tend to be gossipers too though. I forgot to mention, I usually call guys like this "gay-herrings" which is, of course, a take on red-herrings for obvious reasons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: Some gay relationships have what might appear to outsiders as pseudo-gender roles, though that is just a point of reference as it is not really comparable to gender. It is really just a way of determining which partner is more emotionally dependent I suppose and/or sexually submissive in the relationship. To straight people look in on it, this is often conflated with the guy being a "woman" in the relationship, when it is rather unlikely that either of them see it that way. Not all gay relationships have roles though, many are very egalitarian or mostly egalitarian. By that I mean there is no perceived difference in emotional dependence or sexual submission from either partner. There are many that are though. This is not really a silly thing btw, just to clarify it is a prominent dynamic in gay relationships. But the "girl" dressed like a girl which is transgender i think? In public , It was a white dude and the female was black (not sure if race is any factor here but I found it strange) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Phillies said: But the "girl" dressed like a girl which is transgender i think? In public , It was a white dude and the female was black (not sure if race is any factor here but I found it strange) Yes, that's entirely different, if they were actually transgendered. Then it wouldn't really be considered a gay relationship at all. Though they are still part of the LGBT community inherently. We have some users here who are transgendered or are dating or have dated transgendered women before they might be able to comment better about that. A general rule of thumb to usually tell the difference is what said person is referring to themselves as or what other people are referring to them as. If they call themselves a girl, it is a general indicator they are transgendered. Edited December 12, 2017 by Sandstone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: Yes, that's entirely different, if they were actually transgendered. Then it wouldn't really be considered a gay relationship at all. Though they are still part of the LGBT community inherently. We have some users here who are transgendered or are dating or have dated transgendered women before they might be able to comment better about that. No they both had penises is what I'm saying. But the black "female" was dressing that way in public which I found a bit odd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 1 minute ago, Phillies said: No they both had penises is what I'm saying. But the black "female" was dressing that way in public which I found a bit odd. Well I mean just having a penis doesn't make you a real male, just look at Zeni for instance (actually that's probably an insult I'm pretty sure women don't want him on their side either). Edited December 12, 2017 by Sandstone 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, Sandstone said: Well I mean having a penis doesn't make you a real male, just look at Zeni for instance (actually that's probably an insult I'm pretty sure women don't want him on their side either). Zeni can't find love on either side. What are we gonna do with Zeni?? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 I suppose to elaborate this gets into the deeper introspective topic of what constitutes actual gender, and whether or not the biological DNA and genitalia associated with a person makes them male or female. And again, this is less my expertise and more the expertise of say @Poof or @Roggo_Doggo and some other users who have first-hand knowledge of these things. Not to mention this was just meant to be a silly thread. Maybe I should resurrect the Ask A Gay Anything thread series from the old old boards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 1 minute ago, Phillies said: Zeni can't find love on either side. What are we gonna do with Zeni?? I'd be fine with shipping him to the Arctic personally. At least if he tried to sexually harass a polar bear he'd get eaten. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 I don't even want to know what some of those words mean I think.. but curiosisty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 35 minutes ago, Phillies said: explain this one to me... this dude in rehab was gay and for all intents and purposes seemed rational. But his boyfriend was actually trying to dress as a girl, talked like a girl and was I am assuming the "girl" in the relationship. So what is the name for this? Femboy? Drag queen? Too poor to get hormones? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 14 minutes ago, Sandstone said: I'd be fine with shipping him to the Arctic personally. At least if he tried to sexually harass a polar bear he'd get eaten. Zeni's ego is bigger then the polar bear though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Anal sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, SwimModSponges said: Anal sex. With a polar bear??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggnificent Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 i think i only like the gays on tv. the ones in real life throw so much damn shade. youd think theyd be nice and give you make overs...but nah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 I wouldnt recommend it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 24 minutes ago, Sandstone said: I'd be fine with shipping him to the Arctic personally. At least if he tried to sexually harass a polar bear he'd get eaten. He'd end up being a bottom to some sea lion's top. And I believe that would be called getting arf-arf-arf'd. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) Yea a male that identifies as a man but dresses like a woman is a femboy or crossdresser idk which term they prefer really. And they can look like trans or you might mistake them for women. I saw this femboy on fetlife & he was waaaaay cuter & better at his hair, makeup, Nails, and more passable as a girl than me & lots of my Tgirl porn peers. But he would constantly be insisting that he’s a male / not trans in response to comments. he just likes to be a pretty male. He doesn’t do hormones or anything. Edited December 12, 2017 by Poof 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 40 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: i think i only like the gays on tv. the ones in real life throw so much damn shade. youd think theyd be nice and give you make overs...but nah Girl I'd give you a makeover. No frets. And yeah just cause youre a gay doesn't mean you're automatically a wonderful bubbly person. I have met some gays that I am ashamed to be associated with by minority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 38 minutes ago, Poof said: Yea a male that identifies as a man but dresses like a woman is a femboy or crossdresser idk which term they prefer really. And they can look like trans or you might mistake them for women. I saw this femboy on fetlife & he was waaaaay cuter & better at his hair, makeup, Nails, and more passable as a girl than me & lots of my Tgirl porn peers. But he would constantly be insisting that he’s a male / not trans in response to comments. he just likes to be a pretty male. He doesn’t do hormones or anything. Yes! Femboy, I forgot what that was called specifically. Thanks. I don't usually think Femboy applies to all effeminate gay males though just the ones that are about like you described. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) This thread is gay. Shitpost aside, why do super closeted guys go so far beyond into extreme homophobia? Like many a republican evangelical, caught in a bathroom with a male prostitute, or the like, I don't understand the surpression of yourself to the point where you go out of your way to cause harm to yourself and others like you. I don't know if this exists with super closeted lesbians, I would assume so, but it seems like it's usually the dudes who lose their shit instead of admitting that they like penises. I consider it silly, even though its extremely dangerous and harmful, but ridiculous might be a more gooder description word. Edited December 12, 2017 by SlappyKincaid I do the english good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Sandstone said: I have way more knowledge of this than mochi for many reasons. Not to rag on mochi. does mochi ever even leave his moms house? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Sandstone said: Also, another is when gay men go wayyyy too deep into certain fetishes associated with gays. For instance dudes far too deep into the Daddy-Son dynamic. While I personally have no issue with this (in some instances depending on the attractiveness of the men in question this can be rather hot), but there is a certain limit imo to calling another dude Daddy. If you can't refer to another guy without referring to him as "Daddy" you have a serious issue lmfao. Get some variety boy. ex. daddys dick feeels good, but only when daddys in a good mood. call him daddy at the wrong time and youre in for a cunting 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Sandstone said: This is one I never understood, gay men who are a bit more on the effeminate side who exaggerate their lisp or pitch of their voices only while around other gay men... but sound normal or much more subtle when not speaking to other gays. I'm not sure if they realize they are doing this or if it is just some weird habit. Either way it is kind of silly to go from one and then hearing another in a different setting. Note, this is not all gay effeminate men, but I have heard this particular quirk from several who are. personally, i hate feeling effeminate. its unnatural. i like to feel trans, like i am a girl, but the stereotypical queer voice, or the halfway hanging arm just make me violent. i like to feel hotter than a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Sandstone said: This is normalized in much of the gay community, as long as the two are both legal. We do not have nearly as much stigma as straight couples on say a 40-year-old dating someone that is 19 or 20. Of course, this is not the majority but it is generally not looked down upon either the way many straight people would for a 40-year-old man dating a 19-year-old girl. this shit makes me violent too. whorebags shouldnt be allowed to fvck old men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 17 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: this shit makes me violent too. whorebags shouldnt be allowed to fvck old men. golddiggers and sugardaddies know no gender bounds apparently. Although I feel like I would pick up on the weirdness if I knew an actual couple that was an old guy and a really really young guy. I see it in movies or shows, but usually those characters are exaggerated, but I wager they're based on someone. I think I know some young guys who seem to attract old dudes, though, and I don't know if they're looking to attract old dudes or if it's coincidence, I don't get that involved in who my friends hook up with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 15 minutes ago, SlappyKincaid said: golddiggers and sugardaddies know no gender bounds apparently. Although I feel like I would pick up on the weirdness if I knew an actual couple that was an old guy and a really really young guy. I see it in movies or shows, but usually those characters are exaggerated, but I wager they're based on someone. I think I know some young guys who seem to attract old dudes, though, and I don't know if they're looking to attract old dudes or if it's coincidence, I don't get that involved in who my friends hook up with. an older guy is easier to trust, gay men have a lot to lose. being harassed, outed in public, belittled socially that kind of thing. when theres an older man thats well established as gay, its less embarassing to feel natural around him. but i dont think the same goes for women. women have the power of comforting, feeling prized, and being cherishable. and yet they still feel the need to establish short term connections with available guys. i think when women screw around it is much more appalling because women can gain trust much easier, and betray it much easier. Edited December 12, 2017 by mumbojummie13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 i know sandstone didnt want this to be about my negative opinion on most women. sorry im done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 6 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: an older guy is easier to trust, gay men have a lot to lose. being harassed, outed in public, belittled socially that kind of thing. when theres an older man thats well established as gay, its less embarassing to feel natural around him. but i dont think the same goes for women. women have the power of comforting, feeling prized, and being cherishable. and yet they still feel the need to establish short term connections with available guys, sometimes really good guys. i think when women screw around it is much more appalling. My gay friends that are out and fabulous, I don't think they give a shit what the neighbors think, but there's a few who are still one foot in the closet, maybe holding onto the doorknob still, maybe that's why they end up talking with who they talk with. That's interesting, I never thought about it that way. I wonder if it's like that with lesbians, I know way more gay guys than I do lesbians, for whatever reason. I don't know if I fully get what you mean by the rest of that. The type of girl who is going to cheat on her boyfriend... or in this case I guess girlfriend... I don't know why people cheat, I don't care what you are and what you like, unless you're polyamorous and so is your partner, in which case this shit wouldn't matter, the fuck's wrong with you. Love the one you're with, but if you don't love them, don't torture them by staying. Men and women both cheat, pretty much about the same, and in circles where people aren't pieces of shit, both are treated as equally shitty. It's a shitty thing to do. ...Didn't this start as talking about weirdly large age gaps? I think I missed something, or just went off on a tangent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 6 minutes ago, SlappyKincaid said: fuck's wrong with you. ??? oh i see what you didnt understand. what i meant by that is loving relationships are the common goal between people, no one wants to be used and thrown away, gay people kind of have the power to know if theyre being used much easier amd how to defend against being used. but women can fool someone much easier because of their beauty, warmth, and ability to love and nurture. men dont have any of those qualities, so they cant really lie about it. Edited December 12, 2017 by mumbojummie13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 26 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: i think when women screw around it is much more appalling because women can gain trust much easier, and betray it much easier. ehh, yes and no. As a straight guy, from the major relationships I've been in, and having observed my friends' I can understand this being an idea, but it's debatable, it's context specific. It's character specific. There's shitty men, there's shitty women. Sometimes you get unlucky. Sometimes you keep getting unlucky. Shitty people are shitty regardless what plumbing they have. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 3 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: ??? wait wat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 13 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: ??? i think something may have been submitted before I finished a thought, or that was for a different thread wait, no we figured it out Edited December 12, 2017 by SlappyKincaid nothing to see here, move along Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 6 minutes ago, SlappyKincaid said: wait wat women can fool a man easier than a man can fool a man is all im saying. its really not an opinion its more of an observation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 12 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: women can fool a man easier than a man can fool a man is all im saying. its really not an opinion its more of an observation women have more to offer, and they can take it away whenever they choose. men cant do that. they just dont have as many nurturing abilities to lie about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Just now, mumbojummie13 said: women have more to offer, and they can take it away whenever they choose. men cant do that. they just dont have as many nurturing abilities to lie about. its a construct of nature im talking about. i know i shouldnt be because im confusing as hell and no one wants to hear it. bedtime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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