http://www.consumerreports.org/health/marijuana-good-for-you-or-dangerous/
tl;dr -
The Good - For chronic pain & nausea from chemo. Helps with MS.
The Bad - there's "substantial evidence between mj use and the development of schizophrenia", low birth weight if pregnant women are users and the eariler someone starts using, the more apt they are to "problem use".
There's more, but read it at your leisure.
I combine my electronics, media communications and retail knowledge and throw that stuff away while I create, troubleshoot or automate processes using SQL, VBA and whatever else they throw at me.
Some show about how the brain works had clinical research where the same segment of women's brains became active watching porn as men's. So there may be some validity to your supposition.
They are a hell of a lot of work...but sooooooo gooooood & worth it. I used to like when my Mom would take the casing scraps and make them into little nuggets and fry them in butter...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Damn, now I'm nostalgic.
No, the worst part is waiting for some kind of response. 3 months after applying a bunch of places, I got hired. 6 months after that, the first place I applied said they weren't hiring, but would keep my resume on file.