You get no sympathy from me on that one.
My husband dumped me and took the kids the last time I was in the hospital. I had to move in with my father and step mother. I hadn't worked in 5 years, I was getting my meds tweaked, I was so broke that I was begging my father for cigarette money, I couldn't drive (cause reasons, all boring), and I was 40 fucking years old. If I can come back at 40, you can damn well come back at 30.