MEXobiologist

at least you're honest. i still don't think i could do it for money. i do however think i could pee on a celebrity for money... but i don't think it works that way >

don't forget to put it off for the following year though, thats new years resolutions done right

damn hippie liberals in general, a bunch of extremists in their own right >.>

indeed. its only january so the worst of winter has yet to come. february being the worst for us. fuck that shit.

ignore that shit

40 a day? really? thats way more than i would have assumed and does indeed come across as daunting. it would almost seem to me that people are just taking a stab at whatever and not really caring much as to whom at that point. i've always thought that i would someday have to give in and do an online/app dating profile but that seems a little more than i could handle.

...only if she is planning on it that night

maybe its just me but i feel like i know when my performance was lacking and not so good. it seems evident in the others reception and responses. if you've become bad because of continual bad experience, you would only really even know that if you were with someone who had the bar set higher, so to speak. if its the same, it shouldn't really matter as there wouldn't be much to notice and inevitably, is actually good sex for the parties involved. i think its all perks honestly. the basis of every relationship is friendship. you have to be able to connect to people in that way. the physical affection aspects all seem equally important. whether it be sex or just holding someone. if one or the other is lacking, the relationship may have difficulty sustaining. but i guess that may also just be on an individual basis, idk. it may or may not be my age and hormones but sex is as important in a relationship as anything else. i like to feel intense desire as much as i like to feel love and comfort.

i understand what you're saying but its all about body language. maybe thats also a maturity or age thing but i think its easier to spot who will be receptive based on that. also, you shouldn't judge peoples date-ability based on their choice in fashion because its easy to misunderstand. like, mine is all over the map. sometimes i look fancy, sometimes i look like some kind of hippie, sometimes trendy, sometimes i look like a metal head, sometimes a nerd, and sometimes a brand queen. one thing is for certain though, i never spend much on the things i own and i'm not the type to want to be doted on or pampered. most women i have met are the same. just like i don't look at a guy who is well put together and assume he is high maintenance, a fuck boy, or full of himself. likewise, i never assume a guy who looks really casual is careless or lazy. its just not a good indicator of who people really are.

well, thats a start! ladies like food, foot rubs, and sleeping. i've heard that we're like cats in that we like sleep and pets so much, haha! but if a woman who is attractive does not like eating, i'd also say there are warning signs in that. salad on first date seems a red flag to me.

there is also something to be said about the sex aspect in terms of quality as well. the more mature you become mentally, the more mature you become in your physical affections. no matter how bombastic your sex life seems when you're younger or less mature, i think after a while you only become more confident in exploring yourself and others. things that may have intimidated you before because of potentially embarrassing moments, are no longer an issue because you have the experience and maturity to know that sex can be funny and embarrassing at moments but does not have to diminish desire felt between you and the partner. if you are with someone long enough, you'll get more opportunity to explore certain things that you would not necessarily get to with casual encounters. unless you happen across someone who is an exception and prefers something that people don't usually encounter initially. the thing with being with someone for extended periods of time as opposed to a casual fuck, is that you know that even though you've done it a million times, the fact that you can still make someones legs shake with desire like its the honeymoon phase but have the mental stimulation that follows, its the ultimate win.

well that all goes back to the kind of person i am. or at least i think it does. men are far less likely to approach a woman, no matter how attractive they may find her, if they get the impression that they may take more work. i don't mean to sound terribly difficult. i am friendly and always welcome to others to get to know, equally as such, i want to get to know others. its just that i think that i probably do come across as someone that is likely to be a little more of the type of person you actually have to "get to know" before it can go anywhere physically. i doubt they look at me and think that if they just ht on me, that i'll be impressed... and they are honestly right. for me its okay to give compliments or flatter, after all, bitches wanna feel like sexy beasts too, but its rather obvious if the intent is purely shallow. i know it and maybe they know that i do. thats a theory anyway. i also have a great number of girlfriends whom are equally or far more attractive than i. so ya know, pick of the litter and such >.> i know that sounds ridiculous, but i certainly believe that can be part of it. lol.

i don't believe in new years resolutions really. if something isn't important enough to take action in when you are thinking about it, you're not likely to believe it important enough to see through. good on those who do but most just make the resolution. a lot don't even start it or simply fail because its really not that important to them. they make the resolution because they know they "should" not because its something they truly want to work on or better their lives by doing. they simply aren't ready or determined enough, thats why its okay for the excuse to wait until the new year to start it.

why tho? about wanting quote trees.

sorry, this is gon be tl;dr, read it or no.... i've never been much different than i am now. i've gone through periods where i was a little more chubby landing me in the 120-125 weight range but thats still sort of healthy for me and certainly not fat per se. so i can't really empathize much there but i've always been pretty socially awkward. its only been the last few years that i'm learning how to not be or just swallow the anxiety of it all. sometimes its harder than others. because of such, i think i spend more time analyzing others behaviors or getting to know them better, which likely is why i don't do the hookup thing even if i think i might be into someone at the get go. its also probably different in that, despite not being hit on regularly irl, i do know that it would not be a difficult feat for me to meet someone and get laid. in my sexual life experiences, i have realized that a little bit of cat and mouse can make for a better one. like, if there is a guy i have interest in whom i believe could get laid easily if he so desired, it means very little and is far less pleasurable to just give it up like everybody else. if he is interested enough he will recognize the challenge and engage in the chase. if it pans out, there seems to be more passion and intensity. even if an actual "relationship" isn't the desired effect, its still more stimulating mentally and physically. its not always right to say this, but in regards to your original post about the first three, you should generally be wary of women who make themselves too available to your whims if at some point you aren't looking for just fucking. exclusive relationship or no. its typically a sign that they have little outside ambition or sense of self. these types usually display one or more of these characteristics: shallow, clingy, lack self confidence, or jealousy. they plan around what you have going on and will rely on you for just about everything emotionally, physically, financially, and entertainment wise. they aren't usually comfortable with you being out having fun without them and they aren't comfortable being out having fun without you. for as much as they choose to bend to your will exclusively, even without your asking of it, they EXPECT you to do the same. this is not the same as some amount of necessary compromise. without personal ambition they fill the void with physical luxuries, which is where you get a lot of the gold digger biz from. this is a bottomless hole though and no amount is enough to satisfy what is lacking from their personal growth. they agree with you, take on your opinions and likes instead of having their own. this does nothing for mental stimulation or provocation and becomes boring af. i could be wrong, but you don't seem the type to want that either. you may really like a good lay but i think you are also the type who likes to ponder, analyze, theorize on the nature of life or the mysteries of it. there is little of that sort of stimulation to be had with most women who display such behaviors as you have mentioned.

its really no wonder. i think people tend to need a little more challenge and stimulation than that.

must be, cuz none of that at all sounds right to me. likewise, i've heard plenty from women about men on dating webites and apps too that don't seem to fit my experience with men. possibly this is because its a smaller population of people. i don't hookup with people i've just met, so idk anything about that scene >.>

but if she is that type of person, then women like that are not non existent myths. anywho, is this a measure of the types of women you find using okcupid or in a general sense?

all well done sausage jokes aside, whenever people say stuff like that i just wonder about it. like... does it even fit? does that even matter to dudes? isn't that intimidating or kind of scary to some females? do any just say no once they've seen it? 0.o

do they really need to fix much anyways though. it looks like they just shifted over the one chunk. so i mean, just put it back right? i dunno, never been close enough to see the actual construction of it.

iiiiiiiiii could probably eat that whole pan right meow, no joke. <- bottomless pit

thats fucking stupid. the holiday thing. i mean, i guess good for the folks that don't have to work n shit but i really don't see why this needs to be a thing.

and you've added so much worth to it too thanks fuggs thanks for contributing