No it’s not necessarily and issue of “coming to those whom are scared”. It’s a physical, mental, and psychological receptiveness. You have to be like a magnet...you can’t just ask and recieve...
Im not sure if this is believable...but I see aura...when I was little I would be able to tell my mother “oh, daddy’s mad today...hes blue” and he would walk into the house and tell my mom about his bad day...or I would say shit like “mommy Paul’s purple, he’s sad, did he get in trouble?”....but the older if got I stopped seeing the colors but I still see the ripple...it’s like...and inch or two extension of the skin...that ripples...kinda like you’re a surrounded by a people water bubble...but this also means I can see empty aura...the shape of a body...that moves...as in motion...but there is no body