I would just like to add that... no conversation I have with someone do I generally approach as having an objective that I am 100% committed to fulfilling, but rather that I have something I would really like to talk to someone about in order to let them know what I think and why and see what they think and why. This can often lead to me changing my mind about things given the right circumstances. It's why the things I take offense to most are when people accuse me of being extremely biased and unwilling to listen to anything anyone else has to say. To me that is the biggest intellectual insult you can give to someone. It basically puts someone in the same camp as people who believe Noah's Ark was a real giant boat that had dinosaurs on it and that plants somehow grew before a magical being made the sun.
Yes.... well conversations with me tend to be about of that quality. Deep enough to the point that at some point you either completely overlap for various reasons and aren't aware of it or have entirely changed the topic to something else only vaguely related. I blame my propensity for racing thoughts.... its probably my worst bipolar symptom which I still experience heavily sometimes even with medication.
Making quality friends is more important. I am friendly and associate with alot of people from many different facets of life (and I don't mean just here on this message board). Whether or not I am friends with them is not really very relevant to whether I should be happy or fulfilled, but forming a lasting intense and passionate bond with someone is an essential part of human life I believe. Focus on that.
This is good news. I'm also glad his significant other has been thoroughly vetted for once, we wouldn't just want to hand him off to anyone that would be highly irresponsible and also probably dangerous.
I have a terrible memory, wow, but now I actually do remember that. And also please disregard that, I was wrong and I no longer think like that in fact just the opposite.
Loooool, he was just telling me about that in TC. I know though, I expect too much out of him. He's one of the most fashion challenged gays I know. Good thing he got a girl now, she seems like she has more fashion sense.