sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 I need to think of some good convo topics... for reasons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Just take your shirt off, thats a hot topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kudasai Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 I have that same problem too. To me engaging in small talk is a fate worse than death Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 A few of these :brownbottle: :brownbottle: and boom you are now talking and starting all sorts of conversations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viperxmns Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 You could talk about the previous times you had trouble making conversation Then again I don't think I would take my own advice In general of course it all depends who you're talking to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 I'm awful at it, too. I was just never meant for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Just take your shirt off, thats a hot topic. is that store even still relevant? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leon Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Just strategically pop out of your top whenever there's an awkward silence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacks_Sympathy Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Talking about politics always turns out well. Give it a shot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God-Says-No Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 well youre into sports that could easily be a topic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 The pros and cons of sounding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derackthehunter Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 You should do something they teach in sales, Read Relate Relax. Basically you notice something about the person you are talking too and make a comment about which should bring up a conversation even if it's a quick one. It's mostly to get people to relax when talking to you but it can help settle your nerves too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 Just take your shirt off, thats a hot topic. I don't want the party I'm trying to talk with to drool convo starters! Not stoppers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 I have that same problem too. To me engaging in small talk is a fate worse than death small talk does suck i feel so fake when I talk the small Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 A few of these :brownbottle: :brownbottle: and boom you are now talking and starting all sorts of conversations well this is true.. I'm very friendly with some alcohol in me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 You could talk about the previous times you had trouble making conversation Then again I don't think I would take my own advice In general of course it all depends who you're talking to I don't want to take your advice, but you are right.. it does depend on who you're talking to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 I'm awful at it, too. I was just never meant for it. hold me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 Title really makes me wanna post here and talk with you sarcasm </3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 Just strategically pop out of your top whenever there's an awkward silence. this would only work at a bar.. I would get fired or sent to HR at my job Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 Talking about politics always turns out well. Give it a shot. ugh.. politics.. though I feel like I've been watching too much of this lately Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 well youre into sports that could easily be a topic so true.. but my heart is sore from losing last week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 The pros and cons of sounding. what are they? >.> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 You should do something they teach in sales, Read Relate Relax. Basically you notice something about the person you are talking too and make a comment about which should bring up a conversation even if it's a quick one. It's mostly to get people to relax when talking to you but it can help settle your nerves too. this is actually really great advice! Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derackthehunter Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 this is actually really great advice! Thanks! It's what I do. Years in sales will bestow you with knowledge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Do you know what sounding is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 Do you know what sounding is? Stop making this weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 It's what I do. Years in sales will bestow you with knowledge. that's one job I could never get into is sales.. I commend you for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahockeygrl15 Posted January 29, 2017 Author Share Posted January 29, 2017 Do you know what sounding is? after searching the urban dictionary, I now know.. and there is absolutely no pro to that one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derackthehunter Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 that's one job I could never get into is sales.. I commend you for it! Sales is easy, you just need a good outlet for dealing with stupid people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted January 29, 2017 Share Posted January 29, 2017 The second part of that definition is not always the case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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