I mean it was at least a decade ago, idk how I remember it
And lol yeah, I saw you recently on this forum lay out a complete opposite view of the use of that word and other slurs which was especially weird to me because of our old conversation about it. I didn't say anything because I currently agree with your past self's stance, and the thought of debating it with you now, with me in favor of the ideas that you first exposed me to vs you using the argument I used ten years ago, is just -- too weird for me to even comprehend.