Been dealing with this stuff for a long, long time. Never was very "chatty" for chattys sake. But at a party or a bar in a deep one-on-one conversation, I was happy. A friend took me to a bar (2nd incarnation of a famous/infamous bar in Chicago "O'Rourke's" https://www.chibarproject.com/Memoriam/O'Rourke's/O'Rourke's.htm see the pic.) where I got into this deep discussion with a gentleman about philosophy, religion & politics. Everything was polite & good-natured and it was probably the 2nd or 3rd best time I ever had in a bar. A few weeks later, the bar closed and I was really disappointed.