Uh....well I don’t talk to my fam....and I guess the flaw is stubborn....and shameless....like example....if we are having a private conversation about some guy that we see in the mall...and we have a disagreement on the...I don’t know....brand of his shoes....I’m always like “welp...one way to find out...” and I’ll walk right up and tell the guy what we’re arguing about and ask....or maybe the term is bold....either way I always get some awesome convos from the randos I do that with....I find that people are generally nice if you get them talking about them self even before you indroduce yourself