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How can I be more unapproachable?


garbagepailcat

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Fear is not conducive to isolation. It signifies to many power, and power begets followers. It signifies to others a challenge, and challenges draw confrontation. And to others still, it signifies enigma, which in turn creates inquisitiveness.

 

If you want to keep others at a distance, you must become repulsive. Disgusting, but not grotesque as that is a curiosity. You must strive for a mundane sort of ugly and uncomfortable... Essentially it requires that you increase tenfold all those insecurities that you're probably trying to stave off by avoiding people in the first place.

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i don't have this problem. i have resting i'm going to eat your face face.

 

cashiers, for example, avoid eye contact and won't initiate conversation.

 

mostly i'm fine with it. i usually hate talking to strangers.

 

oddly, about one in 100 people sees straight through it. my wife, for example, finds me completely unintimidating.

 

but back when we used to work together, people would actually go to her when they had questions for me because they were afraid to ask me themselves.

 

 

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