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i had bad anxiety at work. kept leaving early due to being bombarded with negative thoughts and horrible anxiety

aftter counseling not only am i staying at work, im working overtime

i know this seems like nothing..but this was SO huge and the job was SO scary

today i actually had a really rude nasty customer and i stayed calm and collected and got her dumb ass off my phone without letting her get me pissed off

ive done this for FIFTEEN years and have NEVER EVER been able to do that!!!!

 

i had bad experiences with counseling. a counselor told me to move to another city leaving behind all my friends, a great job, my apartment - everything i love.. and move in with my mom. SHe actually made me feel like an idiot for NOT living with my mom but supporting my mom and my own household (this was before mom started getting my dads pension and she needed a lot of help). This almost ruined my life, made me depressed again, caused me to gain a lot of weight and i really missed my friends.. and everyday i kick myself for listening to her. I dont know how many times people ask me - "You moved HERE from CHARLESTON???"  

anyway.. to shorten this

i made this clear to my new counselor and she assured me that she was there to LISTEN and not push me into any big life altering decisions. so far so good (still kind untrustworthy) But she is really helping me perform better at work with loads less stress and anxiety. NOw my biggest problem is im bored to death lol.

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3 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said:

While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths.

what? why? just shut up. im tired of all the fucking trolling. 

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2 minutes ago, fuggnificent said:

what? why? just shut up. im tired of all the fucking trolling. 

Well I mean there was literally a thread made about how bad things were going with theirs so it could come across as a slight.

I'm not implying you were but others could.

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Just now, Derackthehunter said:

Well I mean there was literally a thread made about how bad things were going with theirs so it could come across as a slight.

I'm not implying you were but others could.

 she said psychiatrist.. not counselor.. huge difference

maybe this thread will give her hope that things will get better

fuck off

Posted
22 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said:

While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths.

You think?

Posted
1 minute ago, Derackthehunter said:

Well yes.

But some do not.

Here I was just trying to be diplomatically helpful but alas is wasn't meant to be.

It's not her fault.  Sometimes, I think she's misunderstood because she's so incredibly bad at ... thinking.  And by sometimes, I mean pretty much every day.

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38 minutes ago, fuggnificent said:

today i actually had a really rude nasty customer and i stayed calm and collected and got her dumb ass off my phone without letting her get me pissed off

ive done this for FIFTEEN years and have NEVER EVER been able to do that!!!!

Really? 15 years and you haven't improved at handling bad customers until now?

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3 minutes ago, scoobdog said:

It's not her fault.  Sometimes, I think she's misunderstood because she's so incredibly bad at ... thinking.  And by sometimes, I mean pretty much every day.

I just assumed she overlooked the obvious overlap between those professions.

I wasn't even being trollish either.

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1 minute ago, naraku360 said:

Really? 15 years and you haven't improved at handling bad customers until now?

i handled them ok call wise.. but they would upset me very badly.. and id complain about them at home... for years LOL

my brother said i was taking it personally

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Posted
1 minute ago, Derackthehunter said:

I just assumed she overlooked the obvious overlap between those professions.

I wasn't even being trollish either.

It's not easy talking to dullards.

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40 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said:

While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths.

That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people.

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1 minute ago, stilgar said:

That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people.

I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet.

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2 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said:

I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet.

you were being a troll . just like i saw you call me trash the other day. you are no better than the worse professional trolls on this board and that makes what you have to say just as worthless as theirs

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6 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said:

I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet.

That hole is bottomless.

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1 minute ago, fuggnificent said:

you were being a troll . just like i saw you call me trash the other day. you are no better than the worse professional trolls on this board and that makes what you have to say just as worthless as theirs

I wasn't I was pointing out the obvious that anybody else would see.

I also did it a very polite manner and specifically didn't acuse you of doing it on purpose.

Now as far as the trash comment I do not recall so I'm gonna need a refresher on that one.

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24 minutes ago, stilgar said:

That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people.

Her game is so pathetically obvious and she still goes out of her way to try and hide it.  

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1 hour ago, Derackthehunter said:

While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths.

Thanks for the concern, but I don't mind, everyone has different experiences and it's good at least some people are getting success.

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