fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 i had bad anxiety at work. kept leaving early due to being bombarded with negative thoughts and horrible anxiety aftter counseling not only am i staying at work, im working overtime i know this seems like nothing..but this was SO huge and the job was SO scary today i actually had a really rude nasty customer and i stayed calm and collected and got her dumb ass off my phone without letting her get me pissed off ive done this for FIFTEEN years and have NEVER EVER been able to do that!!!! i had bad experiences with counseling. a counselor told me to move to another city leaving behind all my friends, a great job, my apartment - everything i love.. and move in with my mom. SHe actually made me feel like an idiot for NOT living with my mom but supporting my mom and my own household (this was before mom started getting my dads pension and she needed a lot of help). This almost ruined my life, made me depressed again, caused me to gain a lot of weight and i really missed my friends.. and everyday i kick myself for listening to her. I dont know how many times people ask me - "You moved HERE from CHARLESTON???" anyway.. to shorten this i made this clear to my new counselor and she assured me that she was there to LISTEN and not push me into any big life altering decisions. so far so good (still kind untrustworthy) But she is really helping me perform better at work with loads less stress and anxiety. NOw my biggest problem is im bored to death lol.
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths.
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 3 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said: While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths. what? why? just shut up. im tired of all the fucking trolling.
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: what? why? just shut up. im tired of all the fucking trolling. Well I mean there was literally a thread made about how bad things were going with theirs so it could come across as a slight. I'm not implying you were but others could.
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 Just now, Derackthehunter said: Well I mean there was literally a thread made about how bad things were going with theirs so it could come across as a slight. I'm not implying you were but others could. she said psychiatrist.. not counselor.. huge difference maybe this thread will give her hope that things will get better fuck off
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 13 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: she said psychiatrist.. not counselor.. huge difference maybe this thread will give her hope that things will get better fuck off Seems overly hateful.
scoobdog Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 22 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said: While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths. You think?
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 Just now, scoobdog said: You think? Well yes. But some do not. Here I was just trying to be diplomatically helpful but alas is wasn't meant to be. 1
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: You think? never am my life have i not done something because of the thought "hmm, i wonder what other people will think" fuck all yall
scoobdog Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, Derackthehunter said: Well yes. But some do not. Here I was just trying to be diplomatically helpful but alas is wasn't meant to be. It's not her fault. Sometimes, I think she's misunderstood because she's so incredibly bad at ... thinking. And by sometimes, I mean pretty much every day.
André Toulon Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: never am my life have i not done something because of the thought "hmm, i wonder what other people will think" fuck all yall Stop telling us stuff then. 1
naraku360 Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 38 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: today i actually had a really rude nasty customer and i stayed calm and collected and got her dumb ass off my phone without letting her get me pissed off ive done this for FIFTEEN years and have NEVER EVER been able to do that!!!! Really? 15 years and you haven't improved at handling bad customers until now?
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 3 minutes ago, scoobdog said: It's not her fault. Sometimes, I think she's misunderstood because she's so incredibly bad at ... thinking. And by sometimes, I mean pretty much every day. I just assumed she overlooked the obvious overlap between those professions. I wasn't even being trollish either.
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 (edited) 1 minute ago, naraku360 said: Really? 15 years and you haven't improved at handling bad customers until now? i handled them ok call wise.. but they would upset me very badly.. and id complain about them at home... for years LOL my brother said i was taking it personally Edited February 24, 2018 by fuggnificent
scoobdog Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, Derackthehunter said: I just assumed she overlooked the obvious overlap between those professions. I wasn't even being trollish either. It's not easy talking to dullards.
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, scoobdog said: It's not easy talking to dullards. Nope. But I guess this is what the internet is for.
stilgar Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 40 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said: While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths. That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people. 1
stilgar Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 13 minutes ago, Noboru Yamaguchi said: Stop telling us stuff then. This. All of this. 1
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, stilgar said: That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people. I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet.
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said: I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet. you were being a troll . just like i saw you call me trash the other day. you are no better than the worse professional trolls on this board and that makes what you have to say just as worthless as theirs
stilgar Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 6 minutes ago, Derackthehunter said: I saw the rabbit hole and attempted to use reason to fill the hole in but it widened under my feet. That hole is bottomless. 1
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, fuggnificent said: you were being a troll . just like i saw you call me trash the other day. you are no better than the worse professional trolls on this board and that makes what you have to say just as worthless as theirs I wasn't I was pointing out the obvious that anybody else would see. I also did it a very polite manner and specifically didn't acuse you of doing it on purpose. Now as far as the trash comment I do not recall so I'm gonna need a refresher on that one. 2
Derackthehunter Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, stilgar said: That hole is bottomless. Evidently.
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, Still Me said: Well....this thread backfired.... ah welll. fuggs threads only have a 30% success rate anyways
André Toulon Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 And the other attention whore has shown up 2
André Toulon Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 24 minutes ago, stilgar said: That is fuggses m/o. Someone was getting positive attention so she thinks if she makes a thread about how much better she is doing she will in turn get any kind of attention. She is even more likely to make a thread if the original thread maker is a women. Since fuggs hates women almost as much as she hates black people. Her game is so pathetically obvious and she still goes out of her way to try and hide it. 1
Still Me Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 minute ago, Noboru Yamaguchi said: And the other attention whore has shown up Sorry, I was working.... free all weekend tho.... 1
André Toulon Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 4 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: ah welll. fuggs threads only have a 30% success rate anyways Huey Freeman: So you judge your success by the amount of ill will you generate from those around you. 1
jackiemarie90 Posted February 24, 2018 Posted February 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Derackthehunter said: While it's great that things are going well and working for you the timing of this thread could leave a bad taste in people's mouths. Thanks for the concern, but I don't mind, everyone has different experiences and it's good at least some people are getting success. 2
fuggnificent Posted February 24, 2018 Author Posted February 24, 2018 15 minutes ago, Quackers said: Your mental health would improve a lot if you didn't surround yourself with negativity. they dont bother me that much. i still have fun here despite them.
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