ok le guig, it was probably karma and i should probably apologize
just got up to go to the bathroom. while doing my business, I notice a spider walking across the bathroom ceiling. i look away briefly and then it's just gone, nowhere within the perimeter of where it could have walked within that time. then my eyes defocus and suddenly I see it - it's mission impossibling a few inches in front of my face while i am most vulnerable.
so there, i am sorry for the spider comments and please don't make it happen again