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hypothetical scenario ( in no way is this post about me)

you're single

friend/acquaintance you know dies

the dead guy leaves behind a gf

gf is single now

girl is clearly acting out because of it

girl is hitting on everything

you start dating said girl

 

the end

 

 

 

that guy is a scumbag rite?
its been like not even 2 months 

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I have a cousin who is nearly 70 years old.

His wife of close to 50 years passed away about 10 years ago from cancer.

He had a girl friend within 6 months. 

I thought he was kind of a piece of shit for moving on so quickly, and spending zero time mourning the passing of his wife of so many years. 

So, I think the chick is kind of a piece of shit in your scenario. Of course, that is depending on how long they were together. If they had only been dating a few weeks or months, then not so much of a piece of shit.

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3 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said:

I don't know unfortunately I've been in a simular situation.. only the GF was a wife, and she wasn't being ho ish or whatever. I don't think it's disrespectful, but if you're moving in because them being gone gives you a chance that seems tacky as fuck.

nah she like mentally dmg'd right now but im just sure we wont be seeing our boy as much now because he's stupid as fuck for doing this

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Just now, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

It happens. A friend consoling another can end up like that, often for a short time. The guy is only shitty if he moved in on her with the objective of taking advantage of her vulnerability.

nah this girl came out of nowhere and says things like 

yet

squad

gang gang

blat

etc

horrible gen z shit

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Was the gf in the friend group before she started dating the dead guy?

How long did they date?

These two details would inform my decision were I the guy moving in on the girl, but tbh I don't think it matters to the dead dude either way....certainly wouldn't matter to me if I was the dead guy....I'm dead, what the fuck do I care

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5 hours ago, midnight said:

I have a cousin who is nearly 70 years old.

His wife of close to 50 years passed away about 10 years ago from cancer.

He had a girl friend within 6 months. 

I thought he was kind of a piece of shit for moving on so quickly, and spending zero time mourning the passing of his wife of so many years. 

So, I think the chick is kind of a piece of shit in your scenario. Of course, that is depending on how long they were together. If they had only been dating a few weeks or months, then not so much of a piece of shit.

People being widowed or divorced after a long partnership are especially vulnerable.  It seems reasonable to assume that he would move on quickly simply for the fact that he might not be able to cope with the loneliness after begin with someone for that long and also having to cope with her protracted terminal illness.

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1 minute ago, scoobdog said:

People being widowed or divorced after a long partnership are especially vulnerable.  It seems reasonable to assume that he would move on quickly simply for the fact that he might not be able to cope with the loneliness after begin with someone for that long and also having to cope with her protracted terminal illness.

He wasn't the most faithful dude. He was known to mess around. I didn't like it, mainly because his son, who I am close to didn't approve of it. 

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