death_by_motorboat Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 (edited) hes very personal about everything, always asks personal questions about my mom and relatives, asks me the same run down of questions about work, life, goals, attitudes, and drama. i only see him for ventolin and antibiotics if i get sick, and im sick of his insisting that theres more to it than that. Edited June 5, 2018 by mumbo13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quebecelegy Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 (edited) is he worried you're sick with some other things or something? Edited June 5, 2018 by quebecelegy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted June 5, 2018 Author Share Posted June 5, 2018 no, he thinks he knows me. its that general attitude, in life, that bothers me. just because you know who someone is and a little bit about them, doesnt mean things are personal. its weird sometimes, and in sometimes can be uncomfortable or even insulting if it touches something too personal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted June 5, 2018 Author Share Posted June 5, 2018 im sorry am i bitching? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAC Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 Yes, but who cares. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdick Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 get a new doctor 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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bigdick Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 1 minute ago, stilgar said: hey that's me where'd you get that 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted June 5, 2018 Author Share Posted June 5, 2018 alright im sad i made a negative thread now im going to have to explain what is really going on. this guy, hes sounds like lithuanian or deep eastern european and he looks kind of puerto rican, very tall, long-limbed, and skinny. hes also got parkinsons. im not sure what his descent is but hes a dark shade of white and very ethnic, with a very deep non-english accent, but it doesnt really sound hispanic, not sure. with all of his personal problems, and my respect that hes a nice old man, it still feel as though im "trying to earn his trust" somehow. i feel like i have some kind of responsibility to him, but hes kind of condescending leaving me knowing he disagrees with me. and i dont want a "friend" or "adviser" it just makes me feel like im talking to my dad. so i am changing it up, big deal sorry i wasted cyber space complaining. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAC Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 13 minutes ago, mumbo13 said: sorry i wasted cyber space complaining. You better be. These tubes are full enough as it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 1 hour ago, bigdick said: hey that's me where'd you get that I'm definitely not stalking you if that is what you are implying. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 Did you do it with a side of fava beans and a nice Chianti? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kudasai Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: Did you do it with a side of fava beans and a nice Chianti? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quebecelegy Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 8 hours ago, mumbo13 said: no, he thinks he knows me. its that general attitude, in life, that bothers me. just because you know who someone is and a little bit about them, doesnt mean things are personal. its weird sometimes, and in sometimes can be uncomfortable or even insulting if it touches something too personal. i would think he's probably being friendly, but i'd wonder if that doesn't get tiring for him all day. i could understand being annoyed by it though. was there a specific thing he said to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted June 5, 2018 Author Share Posted June 5, 2018 (edited) 3 hours ago, quebecelegy said: i would think he's probably being friendly, but i'd wonder if that doesn't get tiring for him all day. i could understand being annoyed by it though. was there a specific thing he said to you? yeah its that he always asks about my relatives every visit. he wants an update on their social lives and he wants to know about each time i see them. every single time he asks me if i saw my grandparents or spent anytime with them... how the fuck is that health related? what do we do together as a family, how things run in our family,... that kind of thing, and he tries to mix it in with stupid shit, like "hows work going" or "what did you do for the holidays" like following that up with "what are your grandparents doing for their anniversary" is somehow normal.. he thinks i like him or something hes a real freak Edited June 5, 2018 by mumbo13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 5, 2018 Share Posted June 5, 2018 He's trying to tell you you're crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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