Hmm...here....when I deal with people I deal with them on a thread by thread basis...I don’t drag the same bullshit going on in one thread to another...that being said....dealing with typical users where they handle me with disregard...doesn’t bother me either...if someone has a history of being awful then switched to being nice, would be off putting...if not feel like a trap...but for the most part I would act as I normally would.
as for the real world...I tend to be a “take no shit” kind of person...so if someone were mean to me they wouldn’t walk away with the last word unscathed.... but now that I’m thinking about it...there was a girl in school I liked...she was nice to me...sorta for at least a small amount of time...as long as a specific friend wasn’t around...but eventually she just became a monster...so I ignored her for the most part...then after I moved away and our 10year came up she sent me a PM on FB...basically apologizing...and saying that she wished that I had stayed in touch with everyone....but I kinda ignored her then too...so...I think it’s just my reaction by default...insult me? I insult back...be a general dick? Imma go about my bidness