André Toulon

Nah not you by any means. Mostly I'm talking about partners or people who can physically see me staring into the void and just start shovelling trash on my pile

While I do feel that a lot of men do it because they are told or conditioned to bottle up emotions, I do it mostly because I like to fix my own problems and I find that I, myself, tend to be dismissive and unreceptive to other people's opinions on what I should do or how I should cope. Like there have been times I think "man, I wish I had someone to talk to about this" and then I analyze that further and realize, I don't actually want to talk to anyone about it.....what I want is like some glaring alarm or something to go off when I'm in that mood that lets people know that I'm dealing with my own shit and I don't really want to talk about theirs. I can usually figure shit out on my own, but for some reason, people like to spill their guts to me and sometimes they pick the very moment I'm buried in my own thoughts and it's all I can do to not flash and be like "stfu, I'm dealing with my own shit" but since I usually feel bad after being mean, I just pile their shit in with mine and just muddle through.

Let's try this https://www.facebook.com/firstoffinmyopinion/videos/673879331485409/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v Yeah it won't embed, but I'm assuming if you're logged into FB, you can see dude video For real....this what they got going on 🤣 https://www.facebook.com/Blackroyalty77/videos/721582940137907/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

Ok, every soft phase/soft guy era video is on tiktok and I'm not making an account for that...I'll make one more attempt and put it in my FB search, but istg I don't want to do this because it'll never go away. Guess I'll log into the buddyroe account. But since they are both linked to my Google, I'm sure it'll infect both

OMG, I hate how this site is structured sometimes....my answers are in your quotes on my post, Vamped.

My point being, if a woman makes a "masculine" move, she will be applauded while men doing what they just consider a move to peace is a toxic trait....how dare he put her on the street with no money, no shelter, no way to fend for herself. So to stay on topic and not make this a men vs women thing, a lot of dudes are using femininity as a means to level the playing field.....I'm not doing it, personally....I'm ok with just being called a jerk, but the paradigm of masculinity has taken an extremely jarring shift and it's why I made my original stance that there can't be a serious consensus. I assume some of these dudes are serious, but some are just plain trolling.

2024 be like

I fucking hate people who think you are other people and then when you tell them you aren't the person that they think you are, they get offended....this is why I don't socialize anymore. People think you are obligated to make them secure in being blatantly wrong. Yeah, remember....we were at Leon's I don't know Leon Yes you do, you and your old lady were trying to have a baby Definitely not sir, I moved here with my kids and have not been trying with anyone to make more ... definitely not in the capacity that I was discussing it with you. Yeah because you tried to get me to come to Michelin LOOK WORRISOME ASS N#&&@, I DONT KNOW YOU....YOU DONT KNOW ME....FUCK ALL THE WAY OFF DUDE.🤬

I just saw help me on the contributors list... Where does he post...I don't recall seeing him at all. Is he just in toonami now?

My kids bought some...they said it sucks...I gotta ask what they said it tasted like...it was very specific. I wanted no part of it

He need you to talk to him so he can ignore it or dismiss it with "ok"

Cool, we can agree there. So if a "man" has all of these qualities and can do all of these tings before getting into a relationship.....What is his incentive to to attach himself to a woman. I know you won't say vagina, because that devalues the entire thing. So once a man is a "man", does he seek a woman that lacks these things. Clearly a woman who has these bare minimums can't really leverage herself in such a way that one couldnt survive without the other. The men that gravitate to those women are the ones who do not have it together...looking for a new mommy....Much in the same way that women who can't manage their money, get their car repaired, clean a home, or help with family issues would seek a parter who can....looking for a daddy. The ideal of independence AND the need for constant companionship don't go hand in hand in a "masculine" minds set....And that's when masculinity is considered toxic. So now we have passport bros, Soft Phase dudes, and whatever else they are calling themselves now, because the archaic definition of masculinity is taboo. Again we delve into double standards....Where a woman who can do bad by herself is empowered but a male that does the same is labled toxic....Something must be wrong with him to be single. But it's not....When you do it all yourself, there is no need for another other than carnal pleasure in a "masculine" mindset. Now there are exceptions to the rule, but I've not encountered it personally and I would wager you haven't either, but I'm willing to lose that bet....Have you met the male with the quality checklist that you would consider a man that's in a relationship with a woman who can do it herself?

Apparently I'm at my funniest when I'm dead ass

Ok no that was the right pic....I was wondering why I had 22 lives, I just realized arcade on switch has a setting where you get an extra at every 100k. I knew I didn't cheat but that pic me made me think I did and that was an old one, but nope...that's it. I had 17 killing the boss gave me 5 lives lol. I seriously didn't know I was collecting lives like that

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I've done this but the pic I uploaded was the wrong one...I'll be back with the right one

I didn't have my glasses on so I thought I was watching shin chan....but no, I'm watching something literally called shin chan spin off.....wtf is this trash. But it's noise so might as well let it run it's course

God I'd kill for a Guinness. That flavor was one of the things I truly loved about stouts

I'll reel it in here a bit. But that just means I'm back to speaking on my situation since it's the one I'm most familiar with The kids mom and I get along sooooo much better separately. Because together it was a perpetual pissing match and we both had full bladders. She knows how to make money, she rarely asks me for anything.... conversely, she knows I don't need her to cook, clean, or iron a damn thing for me. I raised my sister as a child...I was my mom's stay at home husband (pause) so you can't win me over with domestics (I have long decided laundry can stay in the basket until I need it) and I couldn't win with her with money. But the difference is, she's still actively looking for a husband....for whatever reason, so I don't know what kind of "man" would fit into her world. I'm cool with paying for a nurse when I start to shit myself

We all knew where those posts were going to end up and none of it is a discussion on the modern concept of a man...it's always going to be a pity party....every single time

🧌Interesting😏. Well, I guess it's ok for me to ignore the broad strokes now, touching only on the extreme ends of this whole thing...the men who want to ridicule equality into a spiteful game of "how do you like it" and the women who hold fast to the notion they ain't gotta do nothing but fuck. Let's cut into the center....sweep those incels and the golddiggers to the side...let's bite into the independent women and the apathetic and emotionally unavailable men. You have a woman with a career, a home and makes her own way financially, only for some dick toting charlatan to come in and promise the world, but his world is sports, bad hygiene, and community tallywacker. Well, I think it's evident that he's not a man, nor is he masculine. Can he reshingle the roof, snake a toilet, build a she shed.... likely, no. He's the worst of the worst and yet is also the most popular. It seems this guy somehow infects the lives of all women at some point. But one would ask.....HOW? Is it because he's the most attractive option, or is it because men of a higher caliber aren't looking to attach themselves to a headache that lacks any sort of accountability when it comes to choosing the right partner. A single man with a career, assets, and potential isn't looking for a woman that is going to use her career and assets as leverage. Only lazy chuds that needs a new mommy are willing to perpetually hear the old "I can do bad by myself" chant. But before I start fapping too hard here, I'll ask instead of just making anecdotal claims. For a man, to be a man....how many of these must he be able to check off. Able to fix, build and repair things Able to provide Able to protect (not calling the police... legitimately able to fight off an attacker that means his partner harm) Able to be emotionally available at all times Willing to listen and solve the problems of their partner Exhibit exemplary hygiene and organizational skills. Able to plan and lead the partner or family into prosperity. How many of these check marks can he miss and still be considered a man.

Meanwhile, stoned molarbear.... "This is a tarp"

Ya know....I'm kinda disappointed that I know the name of this song now. I always just called it the Pulp Fiction theme

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