jackiemarie90

What are we even arguing about?

That's a bit far fetched.

I blame the europeans. XD

It does, but I think you labeling yourself might help others who identify that way too. ^__^ But I think I am gonna start talking about my demi sexuality more open while at school. XD

I think the whole asexuality identity spectrum is just because it really forces people to realized that not everyone are sexually driven mammals, that some of us are emotionally driven animals, or just whatever type of animal. XD

Thanks. We all can't control the factors in our life, but I guess it's nice to see my needs be reflected in my desires.

I don't if I was necessarily trying. I was never looking for anything serious this whole year, I wasn't looking for "the one". I was just trying to live my life, and thought I could find casual dates that were respectful. lmao in college right? When everyone tends to be younger....lmao

I think a lot of people tried to educated you in the thread already. I think you mentioned something about celibacy, which would mean you think that I am choosing not to have sex, when I don't think that really matches my case. I would like to be a ''fun" girl who easily did what other girls here do. I wouldn't be so awkward and can join the normal conversations about girls and their one night stands. I am just not interested in it, and not attracted to many. Again, I'm also not cutting off sex, I just haven't found someone that I trust, and haven't felt any urges. I also find that when I get to know a lot of men, I realize I'm way more braver in many aspects, and it makes me realize that I tend to be the more powerful in control person in a relationship, and frankly I don't like that. I hate feeling like I have to do everything in a relationship, which is another aspect on why I'm just not attracted to a lot of people. I'm not actively satisfying myself, or anything, really just trying to get through the days lately. lol

Ok I would LOVE this if it was a REAL PILEDRIVER!!! XD

No one should invalidate your experiences. Isn't the whole point of a spectrum, is that there are people who vary in it? Like maybe you aren't a hard Asexual, but doesn't mean you are affected in certain aspects. Honestly I think I forgot about the whole demi sexual thing existing and it seems like I'm in a huge part of that spectrum as well. Also I am wondering if age plays in factor, it seems like everyone is more hornier in their youth, although I would run away if a guy even tried to kiss me. lol But finding I'm just not interested in having a man sexually satisfy me randomly, I need some kind of connection.

Nah

True, although I like lots of cheeses

Not rely on tinder? >_> But I don't think you want to hear that? <_< I know a lot of guys here are insecure, I certainly am a fuck ton. But there other options in the world. But I don't push it.

No negativity. I said what I said. lol

I mean, that's the negativity talking.

Exactly, but I'm kinda more attracted to cheese its.

Not with that attitude. lol

You'd be surprised what strangers might think on a passing glance. lol But I am optimistic. XD

Cause not all people are alike in what they are attracted to, how they pursue people, or vary in what they value in relationships in this confusing world?

Well I wish you luck on your quest sir. But don't spend too much time on your destination, you might be surprised what happens when you aren't looking.

Yeah that makes sense, was just trying to provide a different method.

Then why keep doing it? You could start small, practice small talk to strangers you meet. But kinda hard in a pandemic. >__> Not a good time for romance. <__<

Aww that's romantic. XD