I think it’s a matter of “how lax should we be” vs. a few people going “how far can we push them” but I’ll probably get grief over that. Either way, it does need some re-thinking done. The big “lax” thing we do is continuing to allow permabanned users who do nothing but start drama back. Remove the toxicity so new users aren’t put off.
and honestly, I can go back to not engaging in it. The issue here is that it kind of started because I got sucked into it because I was, well, moderating.