PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) Honestly I've never really cared or wanted anybody bad enough to even be the first one to say "Hey lets get to know each other a little bit better, and maybe fuck"...or visa versa. All the relationships/sexual encounters I've had resulted from the other person coming to me, and me just saying yeah why not. This fact hasn't really bothered me much at all until recently either because I've been thinking maybe that's why all the relationships I've had just didn't pan out.. Most of the more serious 1 or 2 year flings didn't end in disaster or anything just in us either growing apart through being seperated by distance or something simular and I can see a lot of it being my own fault. As soon as they go silent or it's been a while since we connected I don't bother trying to ask why or even casually say "How are you doing it's been a while"..I just move on and take the fact I'm not hearing from them as they've already done the same since the relationship was their idea. So my latest little fling turned out to be just like the ladder, but all the excited lovely dovey talk from the chick did leave me feeling kind of lonely after it stopped for the first time really. I really need to take some steps into the dating scene soon anyway, and maybe if it's more mutual or my idea from the start I'll be more motivated even early in the relationship to keep things moving is what I'm thinking.🤷♂️ I don't really know where to start right now, but it seems like anything would be way more beneficial than just sitting on my thoughts about it. 😷 Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 4 hours ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Honestly I've never really cared or wanted anybody bad enough to even be the first one to say "Hey lets get to know each other a little bit better, and maybe fuck"...or visa versa. All the relationships/sexual encounters I've had resulted from the other person coming to me, and me just saying yeah why not. This fact hasn't really bothered me much at all until recently either because I've been thinking maybe that's why all the relationships I've had just didn't pan out.. Most of the more serious 1 or 2 year flings didn't end in disaster or anything just in us either growing apart through being seperated by distance or something simular and I can see a lot of it being my own fault. As soon as they go silent or it's been a while since we connected I don't bother trying to ask why or even casually say "How are you doing it's been a while"..I just move on and take the fact I'm not hearing from them as they've already done the same since the relationship was their idea. So my latest little fling turned out to be just like the ladder, but all the excited lovely dovey talk from the chick did leave me feeling kind of lonely after it stopped for the first time really. I really need to take some steps into the dating scene soon anyway, and maybe if it's more mutual or my idea from the start I'll be more motivated even early in the relationship to keep things moving is what I'm thinking.🤷♂️ I don't really know where to start right now, but it seems like anything would be way more beneficial than just sitting on my thoughts about it. 😷 @PhilosipherStoned good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) Yeah thanks I guess Ghostie as someone who's never really tried, and has still ran the gamut pretty far anyway there's not much to lose to be honest. Except time I guess.. and looking back at shit especially the last "relationship" I tried to do...THAT's why I think if there was a shred of foundation BEFORE me saying "you know what yeah I mean I guess I can see this working" to women coming my way shit would at least feel more meaningful from the get go. Who knows.. Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 6 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Yeah thanks I guess Ghostie as someone who's never really tried, and has still ran the gambit pretty far anyway there's not much to lose to be honest. Except time I guess.. and looking back at shit especially the last "relationship" I tried to do...THAT's why I think if there was a shred of foundation BEFORE me saying "you know what yeah I mean I guess I can see this working" to women coming my way shit would at least feel more meaningful from the get go. Who knows.. well be careful don't be too forceful trust me you know where I'm coming from with that and personally I would feel comfortable the woman coming to me more than anything else fun fact my one sister met her husband and pursued that really depends on the person I guess of course it's a family trait that a lot of us are stubborn in my family not in a negative sense in this case but especially my one sister Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) 9 minutes ago, ghostrek said: well be careful don't be too forceful trust me you know where I'm coming from with that and personally I would feel comfortable the woman coming to me more than anything else fun fact my one sister met her husband and pursued that really depends on the person I guess of course it's a family trait that a lot of us are stubborn in my family not in a negative sense in this case but especially my one sister Forceful. Rofl. I'm not trying to force shit nor do I really care. To sum this thread up in sentence I'm just saying I think it would be mutually beneficial to me and anyone seeking a relationship with me if I at least had a hand in seeking out a relationship in the first place. I probably lost you already, but don't worry about it my man. Or in other words for the first time really I'm like why not.. maybe that would do me some good if I put myself out there and openly made it known I'm down. Also are you speaking from experience ghostrek do tell? 🐵 Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 3 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Forceful. Rofl. I'm not trying to force shit nor do I really care. To sum this thread up in sentence I'm just saying I think it would be mutually beneficial to me and anyone seeking a relationship with me if I at least had a hand in seeking out a relationship in the first place. I probably lost you already, but don't worry about it my man. Or in other words for the first time really I'm like why not.. maybe that would do me some good if I put myself out there and openly made it known I'm down. Also are you speaking from experience ghostrek do tell? 🐵 may I suggest a dating site then well I'm not really sure if I'm speaking from experience me I've been turned down by almost every woman that I asked out the only girl that was interested me was a young co-worker of my mother's when she was working at a fast-food joint and she was fucking weird by the way if i am saying your fuck weird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) 4 minutes ago, ghostrek said: may I suggest a dating site then well I'm not really sure if I'm speaking from experience me I've been turned down by almost every woman that I asked out the only girl that was interested me was a young co-worker of my mother's when she was working at a fast-food joint and she was fucking weird by the way if i am saying your fuck weird Well I do feel I'm fuck weird probably.. but that post was kind of cute. I'm hesitant to ask why YOU think she was fucking weird, but I'm more so curious lol. 🤨 Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 I think the last chick that came at me is pretty fucking weird too to be honest.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 Just now, PhilosipherStoned said: Well I do feel I'm fuck weird probably.. but that post was kind of cute. I'm hesitant to ask why YOU thunk she was fucking weird, but I'm more so curious lol. 🤨 my mom told me about some shit going through her life and her personality was well well I think this message board knows my personality barely well by now hi I would call myself a eccentric she was weird it's this her personality and stuff I'm not I'm not sure she had some kind of mental illness or something but yeah Plus I went to the restaurant my mom was working at to talk to her about something and on her lunch break or something and it was this girl sat down with her talk start talking to her and stuff and you knowl co-worker stuff next thing I know she was putting some kind of slimy substance on my arm after my mom introduced us to each other that's how we were just raised in my family over all week and renews other people to each other it means it wasn't meaning anything by the way it's the weird cultural thing for us I guess remnant of English politeness yeah rubbed slimy substance on my arm it was gross for even before covid-19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) Woah boy. I see. Some kind of slimy substance you say? Umm. That sounds kind of kinky. You know what it's almost 4 in the morning here.. Think I'm gonna hit the hay and probably have some more laughs in the morning. That sounds pretty weird though man from what I could understand.. "I was just like aww come on at first" she couldn't've been that weird, and hey your weird.. I'm weird.. but I'm gonna get some rest and try to comprehend that post a lil better in the morning.. ' Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 3 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Woah boy. I see. Some kind of slimy substance you say? Umm. That sounds kind of kinky. You know what it's almost 4 in the morning here.. Think I'm gonna hit the hay and probably have some more laughs in the morning. That sounds pretty weird though man from what I could understand.. "I was just like aww come on at first" she couldn't've been that weird, and hey your weird.. I'm weird.. but I'm gonna get some rest and try to comprehend that post a lil better in the morning.. ' good night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) 10 hours ago, ghostrek said: my mom told me about some shit going through her life and her personality was well well I think this message board knows my personality barely well by now hi I would call myself a eccentric she was weird it's this her personality and stuff I'm not I'm not sure she had some kind of mental illness or something but yeah Plus I went to the restaurant my mom was working at to talk to her about something and on her lunch break or something and it was this girl sat down with her talk start talking to her and stuff and you knowl co-worker stuff next thing I know she was putting some kind of slimy substance on my arm after my mom introduced us to each other that's how we were just raised in my family over all week and renews other people to each other it means it wasn't meaning anything by the way it's the weird cultural thing for us I guess remnant of English politeness yeah rubbed slimy substance on my arm it was gross for even before covid-19 So this kind of broke my brain last night, and I'm not doing much better with it today ok... Questions: WHAT WAS THE SLIMY SUBSTANCE was she like a family guy goldman dripping mucus or did she have like... barbeque sauce all over her hands and started rubbing you because that sounds kind of hot honestly.? Also what does how you were raised have anytthing to do with this. OHHH You mean you were still being polite, and trying to talk to her even though she was grossing you out because you were raised to be polite in public or something right.. I get it. I mean she must not have been very attractive though anyway because if she was the more slimy substances the merrier if you ask me. Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 34 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: So this kind of broke my brain last night, and I'm not doing much better with it today ok... Questions: WHAT WAS THE SLIMY SUBSTANCE was she like a family guy goldman dripping mucus or did she have like... barbeque sauce all over her hands and started rubbing you because that sounds kind of hot honestly.? Also what does how you were raised have anytthing to do with this. OHHH You mean you were still being polite, and trying to talk to her even though she was grossing you out because you were raised to be polite in public or something right.. I get it. I mean she must not have been very attractive though anyway because if she was the more slimy substances the merrier if you ask me. yes more or less Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 This shit is lame. I've been wondering if the only reason I'm feeling like dating anyway is due to 'quarantine fever'.. Guess I better join Zeni on OkCupid. 🙃 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted December 15, 2020 Share Posted December 15, 2020 1 hour ago, PhilosipherStoned said: This shit is lame. I've been wondering if the only reason I'm feeling like dating anyway is due to 'quarantine fever'.. Guess I better join Zeni on OkCupid. 🙃 I'm also on OkCupid I don't know why I mean you see pretty strange stuff that survey they make you take wow okay there was a question once about stabbing someone in the middle of sex yeah I had not my thing so I said no but omg thats creepy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 15, 2020 Author Share Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) by quarantine fever I meant I think I'm feeling like I need to get laid or do the whole dating thing because there's not much else to do. Now add the cold wet winter weather to that and yeah I'm like I have some days off now cool...Oh wait nah../wrist. Here's to drinking at home again I guess. 😷 Edited December 15, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 It’s...been weird for me honestly.... im not one who has to look hard to get someone to sleep with...but getting them to stay had become the challenge. there is this one guy I like that keeps knocking so to speak...but he said he wasn’t looking for anything at this time but then proceeded to go on dates and tell me about this one he thought he could be with. So all that translated to “I’m not looking for anything with you”. But he keeps fucking calling...so idk... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 16, 2020 Author Share Posted December 16, 2020 (edited) 21 minutes ago, Still Me said: It’s...been weird for me honestly.... im not one who has to look hard to get someone to sleep with...but getting them to stay had become the challenge. there is this one guy I like that keeps knocking so to speak...but he said he wasn’t looking for anything at this time but then proceeded to go on dates and tell me about this one he thought he could be with. So all that translated to “I’m not looking for anything with you”. But he keeps fucking calling...so idk... That's so simular to what I have going on..but it's like what gives she came at me like a damn miley cyrus wrecking ball, and I think she expects me to do the same when I've seen her flirt, and make the smae kind of posts on facebook with all these guys chiming back in like I'll take that offer.. The one time I check her page and respond to one like.."well I thought this shit was already on the agenda for us" She blocks me out of nowhere and says it's because she doesn't want her ex husband and me to beef.. and he's been really nice paying for a ton of shit with her and her kids so.. Long story short same girl I've posted about that had the audacity or whatever to ask.."I just found out I was pregnant or whatever I hope that doesn't change things".. Honestly if I didn't know she has to be playing the numbers game by now it wouldn't...to put icing on the cake she still comes at me with shit like "all I wanted was us" RIGHT after she's like I just don't want you to have to deal with other dudes getting pissed your talking to me. 🐵 Didn't mean for a post to even get this long, but yeah I am aware I spent way too much time trying to facillitate her bullshit just because it seems like she really wants something with me, but that hasn't stopped her from being a giddy little pervert and condoning all the attention she gets by casually putting herself out there on the internet and even like in public I don't know. Why deal with all that.. Edited December 16, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 On 12/14/2020 at 8:29 PM, PhilosipherStoned said: Honestly I've never really cared or wanted anybody bad enough to even be the first one to say "Hey lets get to know each other a little bit better, and maybe fuck"...or visa versa. All the relationships/sexual encounters I've had resulted from the other person coming to me, and me just saying yeah why not. I hate you with every fiber of my being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted December 16, 2020 Author Share Posted December 16, 2020 1 hour ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I hate you with every fiber of my being. Lol man that's not something I was trying to flex on at all and you know that.. The way I see it it's pretty bitch status.. idk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 15 hours ago, Still Me said: It’s...been weird for me honestly.... im not one who has to look hard to get someone to sleep with...but getting them to stay had become the challenge. there is this one guy I like that keeps knocking so to speak...but he said he wasn’t looking for anything at this time but then proceeded to go on dates and tell me about this one he thought he could be with. So all that translated to “I’m not looking for anything with you”. But he keeps fucking calling...so idk... Block the bitch. Ain't no time for bullshit. Personally, that causes me too much anxiety. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 4 hours ago, bnmjy said: Block the bitch. Ain't no time for bullshit. Personally, that causes me too much anxiety. I like him tho so I’ll just let him for now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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