death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 (edited) or is that always just an attack of some kind, from an underlying problem i know some bitches like to be degraded, they like to be treated bad, im guessing so they cant forgive themselves i wonder, since i am a glutton for punishment, if that goes for anyone else Edited November 30, 2017 by mumbojummie13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rilkean_heart Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I'm really not fond of being humiliated 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 you dont like a mistress to stomp on your balls for you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cau Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I feel like humiliation and getting smacked around are two different things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 can you be more specific, i'm not seeing your point...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cau Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I'd say no to humiliation, maybe yes to getting smacked around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 Just now, Cau said: I'd say no to humiliation, maybe yes to getting smacked around i also think thats why a lot of women cheat, it makes them feel cheap, and that gets them off... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cau Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I think people cheat cuz they're shitty people, but that's just me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 1 minute ago, Cau said: I think people cheat cuz they're shitty people, but that's just me people are shitty sometimes. like the ganges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hornshire Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 No. It's a fetish We've never understood. Physical pain, We get, in a carnal sense. Why anyone would want to bring emotional baggage along with is beyond Us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 47 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: or is that always just an attack of some kind, from an underlying problem i know some bitches like to be degraded, they like to be treated bad, im guessing so they cant forgive themselves i wonder, since i am a glutton for punishment, if that goes for anyone else Nope not I...that’s a hoe problem 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 Just now, Still Me said: Nope not I...that’s a hoe problem oh.. you see i wouldnt have found that out if i didnt ask. lol thnx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Kweerie said: No. It's a fetish We've never understood. Physical pain, We get, in a carnal sense. Why anyone would want to bring emotional baggage along with is beyond Us. well it fills a void for some people i think, distracts them from other problems and boosts dopamine and adrenaline sorry i didnt see your post before Edited November 30, 2017 by mumbojummie13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 Just now, mumbojummie13 said: well it fills a void for some people i think, distracts them from other problems and boosts dopamine and adrenaline sorry i didnt see your post before Strippers and poles, bitches and hoes, what’s wrong with that? -T pain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAC Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 Nope, don't like that. But I do like the woman to be in charge but not in any humiliating way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 nah. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 2 minutes ago, CAC said: Nope, don't like that. But I do like the woman to be in charge but not in any humiliating way. im just using this as input and relationship advise. when someone does whatever they can to betray, or to emotionally damage, it has serious effects on being able to trust anyone ever again. so abuse has kind of replaced what i used to know, and still yet something unknown causes the abuse. im thinking somewhere along the lines of intent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 2 minutes ago, Vamped said: nah. so funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 1 minute ago, mumbojummie13 said: so funny I'm not gonna humiliate anybody either ... but if ya wanna get slapped around, spanked, or whipped or whatever t I'm cool with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hornshire Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 It can't just be that. There are more accessible means to that end, with fewer negatives. To be clear, We're not simply thinking about inverted power fantasies. Submission is a broad category, and most pockets of it are easily explained. Light name calling can help set mood, particularly when one has trouble articulating sexuality. Vulnerability heightens the stakes, increasing the payoff. Objectification can be viewed through a lens of desirability. But when taken to the degree of shame... We don't know. Perhaps it is an attempt to reclaim some past trauma? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 5 minutes ago, Kweerie said: It can't just be that. There are more accessible means to that end, with fewer negatives. To be clear, We're not simply thinking about inverted power fantasies. Submission is a broad category, and most pockets of it are easily explained. Light name calling can help set mood, particularly when one has trouble articulating sexuality. Vulnerability heightens the stakes, increasing the payoff. Objectification can be viewed through a lens of desirability. But when taken to the degree of shame... We don't know. Perhaps it is an attempt to reclaim some past trauma? right. the mystery and power. forcing the feelings can be a dominance thing, even for females. its kind of a manipulative style of relationship for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 7 minutes ago, Vamped said: I'm not gonna humiliate anybody either ... but if ya wanna get slapped around, spanked, or whipped or whatever t I'm cool with that. ok cool you beat up guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 1 minute ago, mumbojummie13 said: ok cool you beat up guys or women if they want .... if they dont want it ... that's assault and I'm not going to jail Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bouvre Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I'd be way happier if I did, given the recurrence of humiliation in my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drunkenwarrior Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 3 hours ago, mumbojummie13 said: or is that always just an attack of some kind, from an underlying problem i know some bitches like to be degraded, they like to be treated bad, im guessing so they cant forgive themselves i wonder, since i am a glutton for punishment, if that goes for anyone else I forgot how crazy you are 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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