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it's really annoying when family doesn't stop asking about your relationships


Naraku4656

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It is a few things.

 

Numero Uno: they want to know you are exercising

your sexuality in a healthy way.  ie: you might seem

reclusive like me.  People that thought I was reclusive came and just basically asked if I'm turned

on by healthy things or if I was a pervert.

 

They all were like "OMG HE FUCKS WHOARS!!"

Because of all the weird shit in life in general,

They assumed I wasn't interested in a relationship

I must be into weird shit.

So they want to know what you are fucking. I can see that.

 

2. Maybe they just want you to be happy.  They show it in a weird way, but the whole subject is weird so don't get mad, they just don't know what to think.

 

3. Maturity would have you in conservative world like it is, a productive married man by now.  Don't get mad, society is weird.

 

4. uwotm8

 

5. Finger discount

 

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I would take that any day over the uncomfortable and awkward lecture type thing my fundie christian Grandparents gave me last time I visited them...

 

To paraphrase this starts out with...

 

Grandma: "You know so many young kids these days are just doing awful stuff and men are dating men and women are dating women. I just don't know what the lord is gonna do when he comes back..."

*sad semi-accusatory phase with long awkward pause and hand on my hand* :|

 

Grandpa: "Let me tell you a story, you know what the Bible says about what the Lord thinks about that. He said you should stone em to death right then and there... I don't know what this world is coming too..."

 

*and some more quotes from Ecclesiastes, Paul's letter to Timothy, and a short recount about how lovely it was when God burnt those abominations to a crisp with a giant pillar of fire from the blessed heavens.*

 

Then more long pauses and them looking over songbooks to pick out stuff to have sung at their funerals. :|

 

My family is great. :)

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I would take that any day over the uncomfortable and awkward lecture type thing my fundie christian Grandparents gave me last time I visited them...

 

To paraphrase this starts out with...

 

Grandma: "You know so many young kids these days are just doing awful stuff and men are dating men and women are dating women. I just don't know what the lord is gonna do when he comes back..."

*sad semi-accusatory phase with long awkward pause and hand on my hand* :|

 

Grandpa: "Let me tell you a story, you know what the Bible says about what the Lord thinks about that. He said you should stone em to death right then and there... I don't know what this world is coming too..."

 

*and some more quotes from Ecclesiastes, Paul's letter to Timothy, and a short recount about how lovely it was when God burnt those abominations to a crisp with a giant pillar of fire from the blessed heavens.*

 

Then more long pauses and them looking over songbooks to pick out stuff to have sung at their funerals. :|

 

My family is great. :)

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