Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Sorry to post a blog post, but I just want to tell everyone I know cause I am excited. This evening will be the first official date I've had with guy I have been hanging with for a while, he is simply fantastic and I can't wait. Though it has been a very long time since I've had an actual date I am quite nervous... At least his family knows and is ok with him being gay. So I can cross that off my list of usual things to be stressed out about when it comes to this stuff. I'm super excited, can hardly contain myself. Wish me luck. ?
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I'm going to try to be respectful.... ?
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I meant it more along the lines of get that boyfriend. Because we all know boyfriends are things and not people.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 is he gonna give you the dick No... We aren't going to be having relations.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I meant it more along the lines of get that boyfriend. Because we all know boyfriends are things and not people. Yeah, but they have strange rules attached like you can't collect them like normal things. Unless you're a swinger...
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Yeah, but they have strange rules attached like you can't collect them like normal things. Unless you're a swinger... I thought that was the whole point of being gay?
mochi Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 with any luck I'll be doing the same soon since I have my own money now, downloaded Grindr and found out one of the (hundreds of) bars in my neighborhood is a gay bar
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 are you gonna put his peepee in your peepee If you mean docking no... I'm pretty sure that would be impossible for us, since I am circumcised and he's Jewish so I'm assuming the same. If you're talking about actually inserting my dick into his dick or vice versa.... well..... ??
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I thought that was the whole point of being gay? You can be straight and be a swinger... actually from what I know of most of my bisexual friends they are closer to swingers than most (not all) of my gay or straight friends. But that is just my personal experience. And I prefer monogamous relationships, though I wouldn't be opposed to group sex under the right circumstances....
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 You can be straight and be a swinger... actually from what I know of most of my bisexual friends they are closer to swingers than most (not all) of my gay or straight friends. But that is just my personal experience. And I prefer monogamous relationships, though I wouldn't be opposed to group sex under the right circumstances.... TV makes it look so much more glamorous.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 with any luck I'll be doing the same soon since I have my own money now, downloaded Grindr and found out one of the (hundreds of) bars in my neighborhood is a gay bar Good, just be careful and always wait with dudes you may meet on an app like that until you're sure they don't have a literal shit ton of baggage. I gave up on using any kind of dating apps cause the people I found all ended up having strange emotional issues, too bad cause at least 2 were pretty hot. There is only one gay bar in my city's area... and I am afraid to go there for multiple reasons the worst of which is the gay bashings that have occurred there in the past or being spotted by people that I otherwise wouldn't want to know.... Not to mention daddies tend to go there, and I'm really not into daddies or other aggressively dominant males....
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 TV makes it look so much more glamorous. Will and Grace is not gay reality. ?
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 WHAT I know it's hard to believe, though I do sometimes feel compelled to give fashion advice... you straight boys are terrible dressers and decorators on average. I get annoyed when my friends always ask me to go shopping with them cause they don't want to or can't make decent decisions about what types of shit to buy, plus I hate shopping usually.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 what are you going to wear? A blue pinstripe suit. No, seriously we are going to dinner and a movie, so probably nothing fancy. But I am extremely self-conscious, comes with OCD and generalized anxiety disorder so I have been debating for a few hours now.
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I know it's hard to believe, though I do sometimes feel compelled to give fashion advice... you straight boys are terrible dressers and decorators on average. I get annoyed when my friends always ask me to go shopping with them cause they don't want to or can't make decent decisions about what types of shit to buy, plus I hate shopping usually. I mean, to be fair, I've been watching that show because I can't find anything I wanna watch. There's actually not all that much dating at all.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 jerk him off in the theater I'm going to tell Athena you're being a bad influence.... again.... Also, we need to play some games again sometime bro. I have been busy with my programming projects, but when I get some more free time I will hit you up.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I mean, to be fair, I've been watching that show because I can't find anything I wanna watch. There's actually not all that much dating at all. I never liked Will and Grace, it was just boring to me. But I hate most sitcoms so it's not a surprise. And yeah that was the big thing back in the day, it was the first mainstream "gay-themed primetime show" but there was very little if any actual references to physical intimacy or homosexual behavior. Mostly just him being "queer"....
mochi Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Good, just be careful and always wait with dudes you may meet on an app like that until you're sure they don't have a literal shit ton of baggage. I gave up on using any kind of dating apps cause the people I found all ended up having strange emotional issues, too bad cause at least 2 were pretty hot. There is only one gay bar in my city's area... and I am afraid to go there for multiple reasons the worst of which is the gay bashings that have occurred there in the past or being spotted by people that I otherwise wouldn't want to know.... Not to mention daddies tend to go there, and I'm really not into daddies or other aggressively dominant males.... I am (''>_>'') (''<_<'')...so there's that but yeah I intend to get to know any of the guys I meet on grindr before hooking up with them
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 lets play minecraft with cau I'll just end up decorating, while you guys get to do all the mining. It's literally what happens every time I play Minecraft with a group of guys only....
discolé monade Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 A blue pinstripe suit. No, seriously we are going to dinner and a movie, so probably nothing fancy. But I am extremely self-conscious, comes with OCD and generalized anxiety disorder so I have been debating for a few hours now. you know the easiest way to solve this. put the outfits together. and take a pic. then after you have gone through each option, you can flip through the pics, and decide like that. instead of trying everything on, and staring at the mirror, and stripping, and getting all edgy.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I am (''>_>'') (''<_<'')...so there's that but yeah I intend to get to know any of the guys I meet on grindr before hooking up with them Yeah, I mean there was a dude I dated for like a couple weeks a few years ago from a dating site, and he started getting way overly attached and possessive and then started telling me long creepy messages about how he wanted to kidnap me and take me with him....... Luckily I hadn't brought him to my house or anywhere that I hang out on the regular so I just cut him off. But that could have been bad.
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I never liked Will and Grace, it was just boring to me. But I hate most sitcoms so it's not a surprise. And yeah that was the big thing back in the day, it was the first mainstream "gay-themed primetime show" but there was very little if any actual references to physical intimacy or homosexual behavior. Mostly just him being "queer".... I've only continued watching it cuz Karen is the perfect woman. But anyways, is this dude that dude you watched that anime with or whatever?
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I'll just end up decorating, while you guys get to do all the mining. It's literally what happens every time I play Minecraft with a group of guys only.... I spend like the whole time building.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 you know the easiest way to solve this. put the outfits together. and take a pic. then after you have gone through each option, you can flip through the pics, and decide like that. instead of trying everything on, and staring at the mirror, and stripping, and getting all edgy. The stripping and mirror is the only part I enjoy though.... Also please don't encourage my OCD behavior, I could be stuck at this for an agonizing amount of time already. I hate my brain. ?
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I've only continued watching it cuz Karen is the perfect woman. But anyways, is this dude that dude you watched that anime with or whatever? Yes one of them. :3 I met yet another group through gaming a while back.
discolé monade Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 The stripping and mirror is the only part I enjoy though.... Also please don't encourage my OCD behavior, I could be stuck at this for an agonizing amount of time already. I hate my brain. ? you'll be fine. i'm sure what ever you wear will be fine. have fun.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I spend like the whole time building. I like building, but more the mining and exploring..........
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 you'll be fine. i'm sure what ever you wear will be fine. have fun. I know it will be fine, but my brain is not logical when it comes to shit like this. Speaking of which I have a therapist appointment next week I think, this is going to probably be an awkward conversation.
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Yes one of them. :3 I met yet another group through gaming a while back. Well look at you, Mr. Popular & Social.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 Well look at you, Mr. Popular & Social. I've always made friends easily...... I dunno why though. I actually find most people annoying over long periods of interaction. I do occasionally find some that I just can't live without though.
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I've always made friends easily...... I dunno why though. I actually find most people annoying over long periods of interaction. I do occasionally find some that I just can't live without though. Then you wife those bitches.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 Then you wife those bitches. One at a time. I work my way down the list I guess, until I find the perfect "bitches".
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 One at a time. I work my way down the list I guess, until I find the perfect "bitches". IDK MAN, I'M OUT OF MY ELEMENT I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING OR FRIENDS
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 IDK MAN, I'M OUT OF MY ELEMENT I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING OR FRIENDS I could teach you.... ?
Cau Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 I could teach you.... ? We can't have you two-timing on your date.
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 We can't have you two-timing on your date. Spoil sport...
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 I'm not that kind of girl. You're a classy lady... ??
Sandstone Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 Ok boyos, and girlos. I am off to prepare myself for this.... probably won't be back for a few days, I'm going to be fairly busy for the most of the week. Cyaaaa ?❤️?????
Sandstone Posted October 21, 2017 Author Posted October 21, 2017 Just a quick update, this went splendidly well... and he's so cute and adorable too. :3
Sandstone Posted October 21, 2017 Author Posted October 21, 2017 maybe your parents would like it more if you brought straight boys home They probably would, also I will never bring him home... that'd probably be hazardous.
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