I am writing because I am concerned about my aunt, Mary Etta. She is 66 years old and has been seeing a 28 year old man since around 2009. This man lives with her and he does not have a job or contribute to the bills. He is manipulative and refuses to work. He argues with her and her children and strains her relationships with her children and the rest of our family. My aunt has said that she wants him to leave but he will not leave. We feel as if this man, by the name of Earl, is using my Aunt so he does not have to work. He has sold many of my aunts possessions. He keeps their home messy. Not only does he not pay for anything he has bought in his friend to also live with my aunt. His friend sometimes contributes. The reason I am now writing after all these years is now Earl has bought his mother into my aunts house to live. My aunt barely has any money and lives off food stamps. She is also on dialysis. There is no way she can support Earl, Earl's friend and now Earl's mother. I am very concerned about her and I hope that Dr. Phil can talk some sense into her.