Yeah, it's not cool to be mean and junk, but sometimes you gotta tell a motherfucker to fuck the fuck off. Some people don't get it and the kindest thing you can do for them is to let them know you don't appreciate their shenanigans, you don't appreciate them not caring that you don't appreciate it and that your nice guy attitude is not an invitation to continue with such childish antics because they think it's funny or what have you. There are some things you just shouldn't make an attempt to tolerate. So we start to look for red flags and we get better at picking our battles. It'd be nice if everyone could get along all the time but in today's day and age most people are retards. *shrug*