i'm not angry about the decision the family made. they have every right to do what they need to feel they need to do and we should respect that. HOWEVER, if by some miracle Dane gets in possession of the ashes, i don't know we can't do an in person "funeral" and a skype/tinychat one i feel would be disingenuous. i can't speak for Luuv, but i will say that i think luuv would be happy that SOMEONE honored his time here on this earth, even if its by people he's never actually met.