I mean, I get that, but can't the fact that they enjoy games be the thing that makes them feel included? I know there are some homophobic assholes in the gaming community, but I find it hard to believe that it's an even remotely large percentage of them. People just don't care about sexual preferences like they used to. Being gay isn't considered taboo by most people these days.
And not to be insensitive or anything, but if they never bring up the fact that they're gay then most people would probably never even notice in the first place. That's just my perspective from the outside looking in. It's not coming from a position of hate because I honestly have no ill will towards gay people or trans people or anything, despite the fact that I seem to disagree with them on a lot of things.