André Toulon Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 13 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: There is just so much people don't see because people are pressured to use social media to only show off the rose colored parts of life. People aren't allowed to complain because then we are treating this place like a blog or whatever. Or in my case, I really don't want to dump on Eldy, I never really have ever wanted to. He is a really nice guy, it's just we could never work. We both expected and wanted different things, and it doesn't help that my depression and anxiety make me a shit partner as well. Idk, I feel like I complain more than I troll. lol I wouldn't worry too much about the blog thing....I think that mattered on ASMB but here it's just the remnants of us whom all have each other on social media, visit group chats together and play games together. Not like there are a bunch of people we just don't know or at least have some passing knowledge about. Kinda wondering what differnt thing y'all wanted because I know how that is....13 years ago when the kid's mother and I met we didn't discuss that and ultimately, that's what drove us apart....We definitely weren't on the same page. Still aren't, but we have to coexist due to the kids but it's much easier now since we stopped playing the roles. I know you're off doing the school thing, so I assume that's you reaching your goal, but, and I'm not trying to pry if you don't wanna get into it, but since you say you were "leeching" off him, is he already established in a career or something and you feel that you were just background noise to someone else's life. 1
Naraku4656 Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 God it's so weird seeing someone handle things like an adult here. Stop setting the bar high, it makes me feel weird. 1
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 oh wow thats crazy. at least you were both able to end on good terms. you were together for so long i thought you might get married.
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 8 hours ago, Sho Minamimoto said: I wouldn't worry too much about the blog thing....I think that mattered on ASMB but here it's just the remnants of us whom all have each other on social media, visit group chats together and play games together. Not like there are a bunch of people we just don't know or at least have some passing knowledge about. Kinda wondering what differnt thing y'all wanted because I know how that is....13 years ago when the kid's mother and I met we didn't discuss that and ultimately, that's what drove us apart....We definitely weren't on the same page. Still aren't, but we have to coexist due to the kids but it's much easier now since we stopped playing the roles. I know you're off doing the school thing, so I assume that's you reaching your goal, but, and I'm not trying to pry if you don't wanna get into it, but since you say you were "leeching" off him, is he already established in a career or something and you feel that you were just background noise to someone else's life. Not quite, and probably not gonna go deeper than that. lol
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 2 hours ago, Distortedreasoning said: oh wow thats crazy. at least you were both able to end on good terms. you were together for so long i thought you might get married. Well at one point I did too. But it just be like that sometimes.
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 11 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Well at one point I did too. But it just be like that sometimes. life never goes the way we imagine it would. 1
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 2 minutes ago, Distortedreasoning said: life never goes the way we imagine it would. Well I'm invited to a concert friday, so there's that. All of sudden people wanna be social with me lol 3
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 7 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Well I'm invited to a concert friday, so there's that. All of sudden people wanna be social with me lol nice! looks like you already doing good
InsaneFox Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 9 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Well I'm invited to a concert friday, so there's that. All of sudden people wanna be social with me lol Beware, Fuckboys are coming.
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 1 minute ago, Distortedreasoning said: nice! looks like you already doing good I guess, just looking for friends for now. I'm kinda irked at getting back in a relationship for a bit. I really need to freaking focus at school. I dropped another class, so now I'm taking 2. My calc class and my ethnic studies networking class. They really stress getting a 3.0 here.
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 Just now, InsaneFox said: Beware, Fuckboys are coming. lol thats what people think, but no one really went to my DMs. Plus people here are really chill too which is cool.
InsaneFox Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 Just now, jackiemarie90 said: lol thats what people think, but no one really went to my DMs. Plus people here are really chill too which is cool. That’s actually really surprising. Maybe the people on here aren’t as bold as they act.
jackiemarie90 Posted October 8, 2019 Author Posted October 8, 2019 Just now, InsaneFox said: That’s actually really surprising. Maybe the people on here aren’t as bold as they act. Nah but it's also good if no one does too. lmao
InsaneFox Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 3 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Nah but it's also good if no one does too. lmao Fair. You’re hot and single, so I just assumed it was the natural course of events . But clearly I have misjudged the UEMB crowd. 1
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 9 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: I guess, just looking for friends for now. I'm kinda irked at getting back in a relationship for a bit. I really need to freaking focus at school. I dropped another class, so now I'm taking 2. My calc class and my ethnic studies networking class. They really stress getting a 3.0 here. you just gotta prioritize with your goals. i know that school is #1 right now so try and focus on that. you can have other secondary priorities but could be overwhelming.
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 9 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: Fair. You’re hot and single, so I just assumed it was the natural course of events . But clearly I have misjudged the UEMB crowd. we aint all that bad. plus we all know each other for so long now.
InsaneFox Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 Just now, Distortedreasoning said: we aint all that bad. plus we all know each other for so long now. Have you READ half the shit on these boards?
Distortedreasoning Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 6 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: Have you READ half the shit on these boards? i never said we weren't dysfunctional 1 1
Naraku4656 Posted October 8, 2019 Posted October 8, 2019 14 minutes ago, InsaneFox said: Fair. You’re hot and single, so I just assumed it was the natural course of events . But clearly I have misjudged the UEMB crowd. i think we're all mostly too old for that shit. these are no longer the days of cybering through YIM.
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