SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 8 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: women can fool a man easier than a man can fool a man is all im saying. its really not an opinion its more of an observation You sound like my one friend, who keeps getting propositioned for just hookups, and then wondering why he can't find a loving dude. I'm capable of love and nurturing, I just love boobs and vaginas, but I can be sensitive. I've seen a fair share of relationships sour because the woman strayed, but I've also seen those relationships fail because the guy was a fuckup. My first serious girlfriend ended up cheating on me the minute she got freedom from her abusively controlling mother, and I know it wasn't because of me. I was pissed, but that was on her as a person, not all women. I then had a fling with a girl who wanted something serious from me, but was willing to settle for being fuckbuddies, and it was some of the best sex of my life, but I felt like an absolute scumbag, because we talked about that shit and looking back, I know she was not just ok with fooling around here and there, she crushed on me and I let my dick make the decisions. After that, I had a long passionate relationship that ended with both of us falling out of love due to stress from work and school, and communication failures. Women, amirite? Well, no. Because I know what I did right and I know now at least what I did wrong with all of these women, and there's absolutely no reason that anyone of any sex or gender can't also figure out what they or their partner did or didn't do wrong. But regardless of what kind of genitals you have, if you're looking for love, don't go after people just looking to fuck, and vice versa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 7 minutes ago, mumbojummie13 said: its a construct of nature im talking about. i know i shouldnt be because im confusing as hell and no one wants to hear it. bedtime. I disagree. I understand what you're trying to say, and I disagree and I think you're wrong, and have just had bad luck meeting good people. There's a lot of shitty people. Bad luck is more common than good luck, at least that's what it seems like. But men or women are or aren't one thing or the other, you're referring to assholes. Assholes are incapable of love and nurturing. Both men and women can be assholes, depending on the culture, one gets called bitches or cunts. And like at the end of Team America... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlappyKincaid Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 34 minutes ago, mthor said: You reminded me of what my mother used to say, that some people just pick lemons in the garden of love. Thank you for the memory. Even a lemon can be appreciated by the right person. But if you're not looking for lemons, then stop picking them and throwing them on the ground. Your mom had a much cleaner mouth than me, but it just goes to show that even between generations, people didn't always hit gold the first time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 For some reason, like all the effeminate gay guys I run into in my daily life are serving me food and/or drinks from a drive-thru window. This has happened with at least two different fast food restaurants (maybe 3) and one coffee shop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 14 hours ago, Sandstone said: This one is specific to the gay black community, but there is a propensity in "Thug Porn" for black gay dudes calling each other Nigga while buttfucking. It is a bit silly and amusing. On the topic of gay porn in particular, the large usage of poppers in many gangbang scenes... like wtf dude go easy on the damn poppers. I don't need multiple shots of dudes snorting shit during. Isn't it funny how comfortable you are saying nigga and how you recently had a friend think you're the dude to share racist shit with? Just so funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 14 hours ago, Sandstone said: This is one I never understood, gay men who are a bit more on the effeminate side who exaggerate their lisp or pitch of their voices only while around other gay men... but sound normal or much more subtle when not speaking to other gays. I'm not sure if they realize they are doing this or if it is just some weird habit. Either way it is kind of silly to go from one and then hearing another in a different setting. Note, this is not all gay effeminate men, but I have heard this particular quirk from several who are. Uh because they probably feel safer and less likely to get the shit kicked out of them by expressing effeminate traits around other gay dudes than straight men. You live in the deep south and can't figure that out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mochi Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 14 hours ago, Sandstone said: I have way more knowledge of this than mochi for many reasons. Not to rag on mochi. no offense taken I admit you're more knowlageable than me on some fronts, considering I only JUST NOW started putting myself out there and being open offline I still think you're wrong about some stuff though (''>_>'')(''<_<'') Edited December 12, 2017 by mochi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mochi Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 32 minutes ago, SorceressPol said: Uh because they probably feel safer and less likely to get the shit kicked out of them by expressing effeminate traits around other gay dudes than straight men. You live in the deep south and can't figure that out? Pol is actually right about this one sorry Sandy even I who am a more macho and Bear-like gay man and don't have that many feminine traits tend to change how I behave around straight folks just out of force of habit so it's pretty obvious why a more clearly femme Gay guy would tone down his femme traits around heteros Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 1 hour ago, SorceressPol said: Isn't it funny how comfortable you are saying nigga and how you recently had a friend think you're the dude to share racist shit with? Just so funny. Do you just stay eternally pissed off or something? It's literally a quotation from what I've seen. This thread was meant to be light-hearted lampoon of things that are just silly. I would consider that to be pretty silly, but maybe that's just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 1 hour ago, SorceressPol said: Uh because they probably feel safer and less likely to get the shit kicked out of them by expressing effeminate traits around other gay dudes than straight men. You live in the deep south and can't figure that out? No that has nothing to do with it, I am talking about people (I have known 2 dudes that do this) who will talk to gay men and women in a high pitch voice and then will talk to straight friends or mixed companies in a normal tone. It has nothing to do with them being in fear of anything, there is zero chance of them being picked on because they people they are talking to know they are gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 45 minutes ago, mochi said: Pol is actually right about this one sorry Sandy even I who am a more macho and Bear-like gay man and don't have that many feminine traits tend to change how I behave around straight folks just out of force of habit so it's pretty obvious why a more clearly femme Gay guy would tone down his femme traits around heteros No, ok I don't think I was clear. This is not someone acting differently around strangers this is someone acting differently around people that already know that person is gay. That is why it is ridiculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 3 minutes ago, Sandstone said: No that has nothing to do with it, I am talking about people (I have known 2 dudes that do this) who will talk to gay men and women in a high pitch voice and then will talk to straight friends or mixed companies in a normal tone. It has nothing to do with them being in fear of anything, there is zero chance of them being picked on because they people they are talking to know they are gay. I'm sure they feel real safe around straight dudes in your social circle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 14 hours ago, SlappyKincaid said: This thread is gay. Shitpost aside, why do super closeted guys go so far beyond into extreme homophobia? Like many a republican evangelical, caught in a bathroom with a male prostitute, or the like, I don't understand the surpression of yourself to the point where you go out of your way to cause harm to yourself and others like you. I don't know if this exists with super closeted lesbians, I would assume so, but it seems like it's usually the dudes who lose their shit instead of admitting that they like penises. I consider it silly, even though its extremely dangerous and harmful, but ridiculous might be a more gooder description word. Ok, this one I am uniquely qualified to answer, as this was my experience before coming out around 12 years ago now (only partially to close friends at first). I would say it has to go to where and how those men were raised (this might also apply to some closeted lesbians as well but I don't know for sure). The culture that those men grow up in and come from is usually a religious one, and when you come to the point where you realize that you are in fact something that you have been told your entire life is wrong, dirty, and an abomination there is one of two things that happens: that person then does some serious soul searching and loses their religion or at least adopts a very different set of what would be considered liberal religious beliefs, or that person does all sorts of mental gymnastics in order to rectify what is otherwise irreconcilable. That presents extreme feelings of guilt and a constant need to deny and validate "why I am not gay" even with these feelings or attractions. And well this leads to the strange and crazy behavior that you are talking about here. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 9 minutes ago, Sandstone said: Do you just stay eternally pissed off or something? It's literally a quotation from what I've seen. This thread was meant to be light-hearted lampoon of things that are just silly. I would consider that to be pretty silly, but maybe that's just me. 1. Keep nigga out of your mouth if you want less issues with me. 2. Putting nigga in your second post of your thread isn't how you keep things lighthearted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 5 minutes ago, SorceressPol said: I'm sure they feel real safe around straight dudes in your social circle. My social circle is completely accepting of gays. You are being hostile now because I had a friend that was racist that I got rid of? Do you understand how crazy of a beef that actually is? That guy is from a different set of friends, not my usual one. None of my close friends are anti-gay or racist. Are you just looking for reasons to pick on me or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted December 12, 2017 Author Share Posted December 12, 2017 2 minutes ago, SorceressPol said: 1. Keep nigga out of your mouth if you want less issues with me. 2. Putting nigga in your second post of your thread isn't how you keep things lighthearted. Ok well if you think it was inappropriate in context, which was not malicious or racist but was relating something that actually exists from a third party. Then you just hit that report button sweetie. That'll be alot easier than doing this little song and dance with me where you get extremely offended by everything I say for whatever reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 (edited) 3 hours ago, Sandstone said: Ok well if you think it was inappropriate in context, which was not malicious or racist but was relating something that actually exists from a third party. Then you just hit that report button sweetie. That'll be alot easier than doing this little song and dance with me where you get extremely offended by everything I say for whatever reason. You spout nothing but ignorant shit and then play dumb whenever you're called out on it. And nice try to make it look like I'm the oh so sensitive one when your weak ass drops out of threads because you can never back up your bullshit. Edited December 12, 2017 by SorceressPol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted December 13, 2017 Share Posted December 13, 2017 ........................What about this? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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