Iol whenever someone says "I can't".... limitations exist in your mind. It comes down to value... Right? If you have to buy clothing to be in public, that's a no brainier, you have to buy clothing... You see the value in it.... If you had the opportunity to leave and be with someone you care about... It's expensive and frustrating... And change is annoying, but you don't see the value in it, so you deem it as you can't.... Love it.