not to defend anyone here, but i'm not sure she means a roth ira. a roth 401k is different from a roth ira. i have a roth 401k and a traditional 401k that takes directly from my paycheck before i even get it, i do not have a roth ira.
that's a good dentist. i hate getting anesthesia for the same reason. a small amount of it and i'm usually ok but anything more and it makes me dizzy and honestly makes me feel like i'm going to throw up everything i have to get it for like the whole day. if i HAVE to do it then i'll do it but i've learned to clear my calendar for the next one or two days.
She always presses her chest against my head when she checks my teeth @_@. I think she's in her late 30's, about 10 years older than me, which only makes it hotter