my old company didn't offer an HSA so i always used an FSA. this company, the health plan is too expensive to use anything but a high deductible plan but thankfully they have the option of doing an HSA as well.
a real answer i guess is to also be the one to initiate foreplay and take control in sexual situations. i don't mind being the one to do it, but i don't like always being the one to have to do it.
retail always offers shit jobs anyway from what i've seen. the only stores i've ever seen where people look genuinely happy are either Costco (because they pay bank) or Publix