We've discussed it for months before he met anybody he was interested in,
and mutually agreed that if one of us met another person, the other at least have to like them
before anything could happen. We also don't simply have sex with other people
without communicating with one another our wants/needs/etc.
I getta lotta it.
But I can't provide the amount my husband needs because my sex drive is super minimal
so we discussed alternatives and came to an agreement with this particular dude who's nice and cute.
My sex drive is practically non-existent,
but I'm not sex repulsed,
so the main criteria is "are you a decent human?"
and "are you interesting beyond sex? because sex is kind of boring."