I wouldn't worry too much about the blog thing....I think that mattered on ASMB but here it's just the remnants of us whom all have each other on social media, visit group chats together and play games together. Not like there are a bunch of people we just don't know or at least have some passing knowledge about.
Kinda wondering what differnt thing y'all wanted because I know how that is....13 years ago when the kid's mother and I met we didn't discuss that and ultimately, that's what drove us apart....We definitely weren't on the same page. Still aren't, but we have to coexist due to the kids but it's much easier now since we stopped playing the roles.
I know you're off doing the school thing, so I assume that's you reaching your goal, but, and I'm not trying to pry if you don't wanna get into it, but since you say you were "leeching" off him, is he already established in a career or something and you feel that you were just background noise to someone else's life.