i would love to see this rant some day. sounds like you got a lot to say on the topic. and i do agree that it is used quite too often as an excuse to not try anything. im kinda weird in the sense that i always envision myself succeeding before i try anything even though i know i'll fail, which always gives me the motivation to try but with a false sense of confidence. i'll fail a few times but after every attempt i learn what works and what doesnt and plan accordingly for my next attempt.