It is starting to get out of hand... Like okay if you want to identify as one or the other that's fine, hell I'll even let an official third one go for genderfluidity.
But at this rate, soon every single person will have their own fucking gender prefix.
I'm just gonna end up reverting to calling people by their name only.
"Bob said that Bob can't decide on which prefix to use so now Bob is going to get tired of hearing Bob's name overused in everything Bob hears about that's directed towards Bob."
Like, I get it... people want to be independent and free and all that, and that's fine and dandy. But you have to deal with a general public, and not all of that general public is gonna get it right, whether they have intentions on it or not. Deal with it.
So no, don't feel bad.